http://users.ox.ac.uk/~outkd/terminology/kup10.html its got all the tests up to black, just change the address to the kup you want and there you go. i found it very helpful
BJJ is prolly better for you, i dont tihnk an instructor would give you a saperate lesson on your own just coz you ask. private lessons cost lots more.
i wouldnt try and take him on with just a month of training, but if you must mauy thai is the way to go. i personally think that you should do what Red J said.
i do my TKD at a YMCA, theres ntohin wrong with it, the instructor is amazing and that is what really counts. its cheap and very good. just because you pay the money doesnt mean you will get better trained........just my thought.
i know how you feel Tai! i hate waiting 4 days till TKD a like personal teachers, i find my techniques gets better faster. next time you go tell us more. hap ki do is a great style.
ukemi can be quite scary to bigin with, but once you start getting the hang of it, it really isnt as bad as it looks. and KSN does have a point....... your choice though