To a certain extent, if you live with your parents, you must respect their rules. I don't necessarily want to pass judgment on whether or not your parents have the ability to tell you who to date, when you are 20, because I don't know your personal situation. That said, I am about 6 years older than you and it's funny, I notice the same thing. So many of my friends are engaged or married in the last few years, it's kinda funny. But, that's life. I don't really feel pressured by it, even if it does make me think. Patrick