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Great article across the board!! You hit every cylinder about being that parent, and not just a parent!! I applaud everything you wrote because I'm an advocate of everything your article speaks towards, and I've been so for as long as I can remember. The parents that are negative, and I've dealt with them in my own dojo's! Some parents come around after I've sat them down in private, while others, haven't and wouldn't make a positive impact for their own kids. It's sad to witness!!

Great article across the board!! Meditation through movement!! It has a ring to it, a ring that can't be denied!!

Great article, Alex, across the board. You're head up with the value of Branding, and how to protect the Brand, and how to reinvent the Brand and how to move the Brand. Brand management is everything, and you, Alex, have got that tiger by the tail...don't ever let go of it!!

Good article across the board. Whether ones a follower or a leader, both, imho, are important because not everyone, no matter what, can be the leaderchief; someone has to be the follower. While the MA, through ones instructor, teaches leadership skills and the like, there's nothing wrong with not being the leader. Leaders are no more important than followers!! Comfort zone's allow some to be the leader while others, of their own desires, choose to be the follower for whatever their reason(s) might or might not be. As I love to always say, not all black belts can teach...or should they?! Not everyone, from a retail perspective, for example, can be part of the management team, and in that, not all managers can be the Zone Vice-President. I can be comfortable being both the leader and the follower; there's no shame in my game!!

Good article across the board. The key, imho, is that no matter the source of the learning, is that the learning is happening. Thereafter, receiving the fine points from ones instructor can be tied together for a positive learning environment. And that's depending on ones instructor. If someone's instructor doesn't want to help a student who's learning outside of the instructors influence, you'll either be two things...right...or...wrong in effectively interpreting without any feedback.

Thank you, ALL; I'm now...59; just 6 more years for full time senior benefits!!

Romo might've lost his job, when that time comes, but, imho, that time hasn't arrived...yet. Dak Prescott is doing a great job, and if he continues to do so, Romo might face his contract being renegotiated with him either taking the back-up job or just retiring; I believe that he'll retire before becoming a back-up QB. I believe Romo should not return until next year in order to give his back much more rest and strengthening. GO COWBOYS!!

Not yet, but my wife and I are going to see it this weekend; we're looking forward to it!!

Interesting topic; glad you started it!! I believe, that everyone, from time to time experiences a multiple levels of fear; it's natural to feel that. But how one deals with it, that makes the world of difference. That thin line that's been drawn on the sand concerning what this topic is addressing, imho, has to be drawn in such a way that that line never fades and/or erased. Being afraid is as common as the air that we breathe, and it's as mysterious as it is rewarding!! Future Events Appearing Real Addressing these fears in what we're afraid of will vary as to the severity as well as to the individual. There's no cookie cutter prescription/ways to deal with ones fear(s)!! By all means...a resounding...YES!! I'm afraid right now!! I've a medical issue that I was diagnosed with on October 4th, 2016....and I'm afraid!! Not for just me, but for my immediate family!! I will also admit that since the diagnosis, I've had more than a few pity parties, of which, I'm ashamed of. Without going into a religious rant and all, let me just say, I've already laid this medical issue at the feet of Jesus; what happens, happens. God's will will be done!! I'm not going to allow it to rob me of my joy!! What I've been diagnosed with is an Irregular Heart Beat, aka, Afib!! Literally floored me; caught me off guard. My dad and my brother have Afib! My dad's 85 years old and with his second pacemaker! My brother is just over 6 years older than me, I'm 59, today, and my brother is following his doctors instructions and the like to the nth degree. I went to the Cardiologist yesterday, and I was told that my Afib is in it's very earliest stages...that was a relieve. Yes, I still have Afib, but considering the many stages/types of Afib, I feel quite fortunate. On November 14th, 2016, I'll have an ECHO Sonogram of my heart. Then, I'll have a Heart Inversion with the hopes of bringing my heart back to normal rhythm. Taking blood thinner right now to stave off the risk of stroke, and there's fear in that because if I cut myself, I could bleed to death!! Stress is the enemy of Afib, therefore, for now, I'm contemplating to step down as Kaicho of the SKKA, until the doctor gives me the green light to return to the floor!! I'm slowly becoming that fixture at the gym; that's how often I'm there!! Chasing a healthy lifestyle...exercising...losing weight...watching my diet!! So, yeah, fears come to everyone, but it's how you deal with it makes all of the difference. I try my darnest to not allow it to rule me and/or rob me of my joy; I'm learning!! To live for the moment...to live today as though it's my last day!! I owe that to my wife and kids!! So, fear/being afraid is part of life, and my mindset has to be geared full-time to beat my Afib, but when I'm my lowest, I've a greater source of comfort through Christ. As far as fear/being afraid as a MAist, like Jim Kelly said, when he play Mr. Williams from "Enter the Dragon"..."I don’t waste my time with it. When it comes I won’t even notice … I’ll be too busy lookin’ good!!" No it's not boasting and/or bragging, it's me being complete as a MAist!! Therefore, Mizu No Kokoro and Tsuki No Kokoro comes to my mind, and it's not always what you do, but it's how you do it.

They both serve different masters, therefore, keep them separate as to not disturb the other. At our Hombu, the gym is on the second floor. The main Dojo is on the first floor. Administrative is on the third floor. Even on the second floor, the secondary Dojo and the gym is separated by a solid wall, and in that, the secondary Dojo is still twice the size as the gym. The floor of any Dojo, as we were taught, is sacred ground, and to have the gym mixed with the Dojo would've destroyed the sanctity of the Dojo!! Any Dojo that I've ever started made sure that the sanctity of the floor was kept separate from the gym. In my own Dojo's the gym was in the far back, after the locker rooms.

I respect your view point and I somewhat agree with you because I understand where you are coming from. However I somewhat disagree with you as well. Coming from an Okinawan back ground you must know that the Kata was the fundamental means of transmission of old. Kihon was all but non-existent in terms of today's meaning of the word. Kihon was utilized to focus on a singular technique in terms of conditioning and learning the proper body mechanics in order to learn to gain full power potential. The original practitioners did not stand in a line and practice Kihon for half of the class. Furthermore Kihon comes from the Kata itself. The individual techniques are extracted to teach the student, again, how to gain full power when using the technique. But they were also not typically implemented as a singular technique but a group of techniques combined to allow the student to understand how they are used in conjunction with others such as blocks, grabs, kicks, sweeps, etc. etc. Kumite is essentially applying the techniques and combination of applications found within the Kata in a more free interpretive way. This was a way to allow the student to learn how to apply the techniques in motion by drawing from what they had learned and to teach them that unlike Kata, real life is ever changing and not confined to a set group of techniques and applications. This also teaches the student to analyze and utilize what they have been taught in different ways and to combat a wide range of attacks. Kumite was taught in stages in some schools and more free and non-restrictive in others but if you look at the applications themselves, they come from the Kata. IMHO Kata is the foundation and Kihon and Kumite are the walls and the roof. Take one away, as you say, you no longer have a complete structure. So again a somewhat agree with your premise and somewhat disagree with it. I guess its all in the way you look at it and how you were taught. Solid post!! And in short, yes, to me, of the three, Kata is far and away the most important. Without Kata, the basis of the other two, can't stand alone. Movements and its like, as they're found in Kumite and Kihon, are derived from the Kata.

Cowboys defeated the Packers; 30-16!! Rumor is that Romo will be the starting QB when the Cowboys host the Eagles....NO...Romo needs to rest his weary back for the whole season. Why? Prescott is doing a great job and providing that dynamic momentum!! Brian's Chiefs won against the Raiders; 26-10!! Makes their record 3-2!! Patrick's Dophins won against the Steelers; 30-15!! Makes their record 2-4!! So, how did your team do this week?? GO COWBOYS!!

Shannon Lee, the daughter of Bruce Lee, doesn't approve of the movie, no, not at all!! Here's the link... http://filmcombatsyndicate.blogspot.com/2016/10/shannon-lee-responds-to-birth-of-dragon.html If Shannon doesn't speak favorable about this movie, that's enough for me to not watch it!!

I'm with this. It's teenage stuff. I wouldn't worry about it. So, you both condone it?? Expectations, seem to me, are not being meet. Age, shouldn't excuse the unwanted actions of students. Allow one, you have to allow others, and this is a pot being stirred until it overflows. Imho!!

I am curious, as a martial artist, do you consider shadow boxing a form of kata similar to kung fu and forms? Every now and then, I wonder what a martial artist perception of boxing is. Yes I do. After all, shadow boxing is a solo training tool, just as Kata is a solo training tool, in part.

Welcome to KF, highkick; glad that you're here!!

Appears to me that within his culture, where he lives, he's going to be expected to fight more often than not. Otherwise, he's labeled as both a target and a coward. A very sensitive matter, for sure. One that will require some kid gloves. Threatening, in this matter, might backfire one way or another, no matter the type of threat in the hopes of disciplining said student(s). And because the parents have the authority to effect change, and a MA instructor doesn't, unless the instructor is the parent of said student, that tree that one will be barking up and at, will be a possible waste of time in the long run. If it was me, I'd give one warning, and if it happens again, I'd expel him indefinitely!! Why?? Those actions aren't tolerated, and they are far from what the MA should be teaching. The weapon, the MAist, must be tempered, and not allowed to wander at the first whimsical notion. What the MA provides can be used for good or for bad, either must be decided by the individual on each basis. Both public and private schools don't tolerate fighting on their campuses, for great reasons, and when it does occur, sanctions and the like are handed out with a terrible resolve. Get in a fight at work, that employee is terminated, for the most part!! If your school doesn't tolerate that type of behavior, then you must deal with it before it deals with you!! And if expelling this student tips the balance of sparring partners, than so be it!! Sometimes, one has to be sacrificed for the good of the students as well as the school as well as the instructor.

The three 'K's', Kata being one of them, by themselves are ineffective. A three legged chair is unstable because it's missing one or more of its important legs. Alas, Kata, being a tool, the tool isn't effective without the other two...Kihon and Kumite!! Concentrating on one, Kata for example, and not the other, leaves one quite unstable. Imho!!

Anyone?? Reason I asked was that on October 4th I was diagnosed by my doctor that I've Afib, and was referred to a Cardiologist!! Stress is an enemy of Afib, and in that, I might have to step down for good as Kaicho, and might step off the floor as well. Will find out when I see the Cardiologist on October 17th, day before my birthday!! I'd love to live to 80, and not pass away at 59 or 60 or anything before 80...if I have anything to say about it!!

Well, good news for Cowboy fans, like myself, and that is this... 4-1 record!! Yahoo....Yippee...Hot Dog... Just when I thought that the season was over before it even started, with Romo out on the DL with back injuries, AGAIN, and the DL list starting to look like the final nails have been driven into the Cowboy coffin for good. But then, the clouds rolled back, the storm calmed, and the sun started to shine, and what would come through all of that, in a hush of a unheard thunderclap, to the unexpected triumphs, out of Mississippi State: No one else but a rookie!! Not your ordinary, no, but a determined rookie who took center stage with a commanding calmness that reassured the entire Cowboys nation to fret no more because Dak Prescott had the icy veins and fiery confidence that alluded rookies, for the most part, at will. I didn't know anything about Dak, but I know enough now about both Dak and the Cowboys' faith in him, to sit back and enjoy the Cowboys from kick-off to the final whistle. Next, we've the Packers, with a 3-1 record, and both teams have a 2-1 away record, that tells me that this is going to be two things... 1) One great game [i hope] 2) Not a easy game for the Cowboys This game might be a rough one for Dak, but, I thought that with the Bengals too!! Patrick must be sadden about his Dolphins 1-4 record!! Brian might be feeling better than Patrick, with his Chiefs 2-2 record!! You two, keep your chins up and stoke the fires while you two cheer on your respective teams, and while the storms still raging over your teams, it's not over until it's over...GO CHIEFS...GO DOLPHINS!! GO COWBOYS!!

Anger, imho, begets mistakes, and mistakes made too often because of anger aren't compatible with being effective whenever needed.

What's your definition of HEALTHY LIFESTYLE?? This answer is more than likely to come from a doctor and the like. I'm the furthest thing from a doctor, and nor do I want to appear like I know the exact answer. The words Healthy Lifestyle, for me, is quite an confusing term beyond its reflections off the two words...Healthy and Lifestyle!! So, just exactly...what does it mean to live a Healthy Lifestyle??

Do you know of anyone who has been diagnosed with Afib [Atrial Fibrillation] that still trains or no longer trains in the MA?

Welcome, ThatGUY, to KF; glad that you're here!! Congrats, ThatGUY on your Yonkyu in Kyokushin, and in your Shodan in Shotokan!! If I may ask, how long have you been training in Kyokushin?

In short, if my opponent wants to play the chase game...fine...I'm patient, and I'll wait, and before long, my opponent will become impatient, and that begets mistakes that I can turn into my advantages.