there was this girl today, in bjj class and she threw a fit, because i was going rough with , her, she is my size, im 135, and 16 yrs old ,

 

she has spent 2 years in shootfighting, by the way,

 

i told her ok ill take it easier, but not easy, and she said im only a girl and proceeded to go full force with her vast knowledge of shootfighting, i myself being a beginner in bjj , thought ok ill continue tough , she started swaring and such, and i told her this is not a game, this is combatives, what if a guy is trying to rape you, are you gonna tell him to go easy?

 

what a B***H , can anyone give me some advice on dealing with people like this

Ask her what she's really there to learn I guess. Maybe something will sink in when she thinks about it.

why don't you find someone else to roll with ?

 

I always go hard, I'm there to train - don't wanna waste my time with people who aren't.

evryone had a partner, and i didn't so , she acted as if she was doin me a favor , otherwise i would never roll with her im there to learn

Make sure you try to find someone that you can train hard with. I always feel cheated unless I am really knackered.

 

I remember this Karate guy that came to some Ninjutsu classes and was using karate techniques in the class. I think that is one of the most disrespectful things anyone can do, as if he was doing us a favour!

 

Thats people I guess.

 

Yours in Aiki.

It is ultimately the responsibility of the instructor to handle situations like that when they become a problem.

i agree with Sai

i will not change the intensity of my training for her, mind you, there are other girls in the class an they don't complain,

she has stayed away from me , and if she does want to roll with me i will take it up a notch and show that 120lbs itch what knee on belly feels like LOL

Nurp her.