Elky Posted January 14, 2007 Posted January 14, 2007 I, like many others on this thread, don't believe that we should apply to rules of the ancient times to now, but still should maintain the same amount of respect for our own dojo. When I went to go try out another dojo, the sensei there told me to ask my teacher. When I actually asked my teacher, he got a quizzical look on his face and asked "umm...sure. You don't have to ask me."Ha ha, yeah, my intructor would give me such a funny look if I asked him what I was allowed to do in my free time. He'd be like this ->
stejitsu Posted February 5, 2007 Posted February 5, 2007 Our instructor and various students like myself at one time train in various styles also. It makes for a rich environment of martial ability and can only be a positive influence on our club. Our sifu says do what you like its our free time you only live once enjoy your time whilst here Wing chun helps you find the path to ones inner strength. I am getting stronger'''First in First served''....''Mike Walsh''' 6'th Dan.R.I.P sensiehttp://www.communigate.co.uk/chesh/runcornwingchun/index.phtml
The BB of C Posted February 11, 2007 Posted February 11, 2007 I don't believe you should have to ask a sensei for permission to train anywhere else. He/she is your sensei and you obviously have some respect for them if he's good but he/she does not have much right to deny you training in another style. Of course there are some exeptions but I'm not sure if those exeptions happen often enough to be considered too seriously.
Cormoran Posted February 18, 2007 Posted February 18, 2007 I've noticed everyone talking about respect for the sensei, but what about respect for the student? Shouldn't respect go both ways?If I found that I had to ask permission i'd feel I was being disrespected. For me it comes down to more modern thinking i guess, I'm paying my sensei for a service. If i also want a different service and he tells me i can't do it then he'd damn well better be able to offer the exact same service i'd get from the other place for the same or lower price. As for advice, sure, that's exactly what your sensei is there for. That's part and parcel with the service you're paying for so whynot utilize it. "Don't eat muffins when i'm developing you!" - Black Books
Marine Posted February 19, 2007 Posted February 19, 2007 I dont think that you have to ask permission. But I think you should tell your sensei just to let him know what is going on and to let him know that you are quitting or not going to be around as much. I know i went through this over a year ago and I just told my sensei that i was going to go train else where because i wasnt learning much at his gym, mostly because he was never there and i was teaching classes. Whoever said that the pen is mightier than the sword never encountered automatic weapons.
marie curie Posted February 21, 2007 Posted February 21, 2007 When I was young, I took karate. We met for 3 hrs every Saturday, and I wanted to improve my skills by training at our local TKD school. I asked if it would be ok, and my sensei said that I really shouldn't. They had different goals than we did.Later on I found out that the TKD school was a total McDojo. I had a friend who's little sister got her shodan after 2 years of training and at the age of 9, which wasn't crazy uncommon. In the end I'm really glad that I listened to my sensei, and respect him for not bashing the school to me, but making a recommendation to not go. You suck-train harder.......................Don't block with your faceA good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving. -Lao Tzu
boyo1991 Posted April 7, 2007 Posted April 7, 2007 no, its your respect for the art... "ok, well i must warn you, im an orange belt on karateforums!"
harmoniouswarrior Posted April 10, 2007 Posted April 10, 2007 I think I'd rather ask advice than permission, I would ask for advice, but I won't ask for permission. I'd probably follow the advice however.This says it all. Asking for advice gives your instructor a chance for input, and if he really has your best interest at heart, how can he say No? 'Do not do injury, if you can possibly avoid it.' --Tielo, 6th Century'A man, as long as he teaches, learns.' -- Seneca
Chuilli, Kyo Sah Nim Posted April 26, 2007 Posted April 26, 2007 Well after being in tang soo do for an extended period of time i decided to go back to my childhood martial art of chinese kempo. so i asked my master first and i believe that it was the right thing to do and secondly the professor im training under asked me if i did the second i stepped in his dojo. but my instructor does not care, well i wont say care because he loves that im broadening my horizons i suppose you could say but i would want my students to ask because some of my students i would not want at other schools, i would tell them to wait to acquire more rank and knowledge because the other school is going to ask you questions and things and to be honest, and unfortuantely, some of them, i would not trust them to remember all their materials for both arts and the respect thing of another school is so huge. so it takes a special person to cross train i think. but thats just what i would want my students to do, and i think others appreciate it.in tang soo, k.chuilli K.Chuilli2nd Dan, InstructorKyo Sah NimMoo Duk Kwan Tang Soo Do
HongKongFooey Posted May 20, 2007 Posted May 20, 2007 It is pretty funny how some people become totally subservient to their martial arts instructor, like they are some kind of demigod. This isn't feudal Japan. What you do in your free time is your business. No one should have to ask permission, nor should anyone expect groveling, just because they happen to teach a martial art. Welcome to McDojo's! One supersize blackbelt coming right up sir!At Mcdojo's, your ability to succeed is only limited by the size of your wallet, and we back that up in writing!
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