Do you believe in True Love?

[Kamiya]

I believe in true love, however, I don't think I agree with the idea of "finding" true love. In my opinion, true love isn't just something you happen to stumble across one day. It's a growing process that requires time and commitment. I think true love is "made." Um, I didn't mean that the way it sounded...hehe

[Drunken Monkey]

....that girl i mentioned.

 

the one i can't get out of my head.

 

is moving back up to her home in two weeks time.

 

that means no more hanging out at her rented place here.

 

no more cooking dinner for her.

 

no more driving into china town for a soup noodle at 3am.

 

i really feel like i'm losing her for good.

 

is this now the time to get all melodramatic and do the cliched 80's film thing and confess my true feelings?

 

or is it just going to be the old sensible, mature, real world of knowing that this isn't a film, i am not the star and i do not get the girl....?

[battousai16]

well, posing as that guy in the bar the hero always meets before the last minute to talk to said girl, it's my turn to say "what do you have to lose, the worst she can say is no, at least you can say you tried where if you don't say anything at all..."... you seem like you've seen enough of these. course, granted, having never met you, the lady in question, and not knowing anything about your current situation might be a good signal to keep my nose in my own buisness, but... feh.

[battousai16]

sorry, part of a massive triple post

Edited August 7, 2004 by battousai16

[battousai16]

sorry, this too was part of a massive triple post

Edited August 7, 2004 by battousai16

[battousai16]

sorry, this was an apology and and explanation before i figured out how to edit

[aefibird]

Tell her how you feel. If you think you're losing her then it'd be a good time to tell her your feelings for her, especially as you've become close friends.

 

Good luck!

[Drunken Monkey]

...not that simple.

 

it really is a case of 'she ain't interested'...

 

going back to the cheesy 80s film scenarios.

 

y'know, the last scene when the girl finally realises how much the guy has done to make her happy.

 

well, in my film, that guy isn't me.

 

and it looks like it never will be.

 

.....just my luck, even in my film, i'm not actually the hero who gets the girl....

 

grr,

 

you have no idea how much this annoys me;

 

the whole situation reads too much like a really crap film.

 

boy meets girl,

 

boy falls in love with girl.

 

boy becomes really good friends with girl.

 

girl finds boyfriend.

 

boy leaves them to be happy together.

 

boyfriend breaks up with girl.

 

boy and girl meet up again.

 

boy still truly, madly and deeply....

 

except, unlike the usual film plots,

 

girl only sees boy as a good friend.

 

and y'know,

 

i have kinda accepted it.

 

i'm not that much of a silly little boy.

 

i know when you don't feel that way about someone,

 

nothing is really gonna change that.

 

like the song goes.

 

you can't always get what you want.

 

and to be honest,

 

i don't have a very good track record with girls.

 

let's just say the one who ends up getting hurt, usually isn't me.

 

i've been thinking about that a lot recently.

 

basically, i've not given her any reason to give me that much trust.

 

and the times that she has asked something of me, i have failed her.

 

but then, that could just be me trying to salvage my role as the 'hero'.

 

y'know, playing to the 'i love her but i know i am not good for her....' thing...

 

gah.....

 

...i think i really have watched too many 80s films.

[battousai16]

perhaps, but then again, what do you have to lose? y'know what they say, expect the worst and hope for the best. it's one thing to expect the worst, but to not even hope...

 

that said, god knows i won't the female equivilant in my situtation, so i guess i'm really not one to talk.

[GrrrArg]

TELL HER!!!

 

Seriously, you still here? Run man, run!