I recently had to come to a decision about quitting my dojo. I had been feeling something was not right for a while now. But when I discussed some of it with the sensei I just got strange looks from him. One of it was about my son moving to adult class. He was a youth brown belt on the verge of testing for his black belt and he wanted to be tested for a adult color and they were going to test him for yellow and he had also had to give a 100% in adult class and was not aloud to take youth class. We had to take a week or so off due to family stuff. When we came back they had a belt testing and they had tested some kids that were youth orange belts for adult orange belts. My son was upset because they had just went around him. His 5 years meant nonething! He was getting discouraged about karate as it was thats why he wanted to move to adult class because he was so much bigger than the kids in the the kids class. And when he would go to hard he would get yelled at, when he would go to light( it would look like was not trying) he would get yelled at. Then I ran in to a friend today and heard that our Sensei made a announcement a couple of months back to the whole class, that if My Husband and I (who are black belts) showed up that know one is to listen to us if we helped out. Like if someone was doing a wrong move in a kata, they are not to listen to us. What? You mean people are to disrespect us? This was very up setting to me. Our 5 years we hardly ever missed class and this spring I had surgery and missed and then my back went out over the summer and I had to miss and we need to take time for our family. My husband was working alot over time. Not once did they call and asked where we were. My question is would you treat your senior students this way?