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Well, with a Sharpie, you at least |SEE where you hit them (that'll leave a mark!) to identify the attacker later. But the point is to soft IMO. ABIC is much more solid and also will "leave a mark".

I always have a couple of pens near me. Granted, they're not real sharp, but they can penetrate and against an opponent that's close enough, there are many soft targets you can attack. Eyes, throat, under the chin/jaw, armpit, ribs, side of the head, inside of the arm, back of the hand, solar plexus, groin, inside of the legs, kidneys, back of the head, and back of the knee. BIC pens are especially sturdy. Sitting in a restaurant, knife, fork, spoon handle, candle (wax) come to mind. Somebody mentioned cell phones. They have a small edge/corner and can be used under the jaw bone to press against if you're grabbed. No so good for striking. A belt was also mentioned. I wouldn't try it like Jackie Chan does lol but it can be used like a whip, and for myself, I wear a heavy Carhart belt, which has a pretty solid buckle.

Welcome Brandon! That's a whole lot of ranks for your age. When did you start training?

None. We have no virtues. We're doomed!

Mine was a partially torn anterior crucia ligament (sp?) on my left knee. I was demonstrating with an adult student a defense against a 2 handed grab, was looking/speaking to the class when my opponent swept my knee. There was no call for it other than screwing around. He was dismissed from my class.

Shorin Ryu Matsumura Seito does this also. It's our more advanced "ready stance" for self defense. Hands are up, slight bend of the knees, feet about 2 feet apart.

My guess is it's pretty rampant and frequent. I've gone to many schools in my travels to watch what they do, and some of them just plain SUCK! Yet you read the reviews and they sound like heaven on earth. I've been retired for some time now and never used the internet for my dojo. I always preferred word of mouth.

I always had an 80# heavy bag or two, and a makiwara. I was there to teach karate, not cardio, strength training, aerobics or weight loss. Get a gym membership if that's your goal.

oops! I meant 100% SHEESH! I'm old, give me a break here! lol

What was his cause of death? I practice the same system, but under the teachings of the late Sensei Kuda Yuichi.

My new goals for 2025. Begin each day waking up with a pulse. Don't fall over putting my underwear, pants or socks on. Be able to manage any aches and pains encountered throughout the day. Resist the urges to strangle, beat, defame, belittle or run over the little idiot in Walmart with the purple mohawk, dozen piercings, tattoos up the wazoo wearing all black. That's about it.

10% AGREE! If you want to mediate, great ... on your own time, not mine. Come early and mediate all you want, or stay late. Either I'm ok with.

I'm thinking my particular system doesn't put a big WHOOP on tests and belt advancement. The testing sensei asks the students to do certain kata, various learned skills or techniques that he\she wants to see (usually ones you've struggled with), decides you know it, or not...and move on. There's not a lot of emphasis or making a big deal out of testing. The only time my original sensei really did anything special for a test was if somebody got their black belt. Then it was time to break out the Saki and TOASTS!

Yep, that's pretty much it.

I was asked this question many times by new students, whether we mediated or not. We don't. I've seen many classes where they mediate before, or after class, to prepare themselves mentally to train. I find that concept troubling because you're teaching yourself a bad habit IMO. Sure, mediate before class, or after, but if you HAVE to meditate to get yourself in the right frame of mind, then what are you going to do when a thug confronts you on the street and wants a fight? "Pardon me sir, may I be allowed to meditate for 10 minutes before we engage in combat?" You need to get into that fighting, combat mindset IMMEDIATELY!