oooh I remember go kan ryu. I trained it until I got bored, when I joined my current dojo I realised I was bored because of the lack of fighting. I was also amazed when I went to a GKR tournament in Sydney and only five people from south australia, the supposed birth place of the style, went... all were from the dojo I went to. More people came from new zealand than from SA. It seemed to me if our dojo was the most active in the state and I felt bored then karate wasn't for me, took me years of no martial arts at all before I realised I just wasn't getting the right karate. When I joined my new dojo the 13 year old there was able to kick my butt with ease in sparring, that really impressed me and showed me how little I learnt at GKR. We recently got a new guy in our dojo who also did GKR in the same dojo I went to, he had all the same problems I had when restarting. Most notably he'd apologise when he'd get a good hit in, I did the same thing. When we did this the people we apologised to were dumbfounded, they told us if we did something well we should be proud instead of apologetic, it didn't phase them because they were used to being hit. I just wish I found the right place to train. When I realised how little I learnt and the years I wasted afterwards thinking MAs were boring it just leaves a sour taste in my mouth.