Hi, I started TKD as I am a 1st dan black belt in karate and still can't kick very high, and I know TKD is a good martial art for high kicks. But I don't seem to be getting any better and my instructor can't kick very high either, and says it's not import how high you can kick it's more about style and power (which is probably true). I have bought a very good book about stretching but it says in there that even if you can do the splits you still may could not be able to kick high, also there is a guy at our club who's not very flexible at all (he is miles off doing the side splits, he can't touch his feet with his legs straight) but he can kick higher than anyone else I know from cold.. please advise how I can get my kicks higher.. (don't tell me I can't, I'll cry) Cheers Daz