That's part of the problem I'm having is the first step of even locating schools in my area unfortunately. I live about 45 miles and work about 20 miles north of Sacramento, CA if that helps. I am willing to look into any school in the greater Sacramento area. As far as goals are concerned, mine and my wife's differ: My wife is about as girly girl as they come, so she's mostly looking for the fitness aspect although I will be happier knowing she will be doing something that could help her protect herself when she's out alone. As for me, I'm looking to actually get into cross-training, or MMA as I've seen it referred to on these forums, eventually. I will gladly admit that I worry about my ability to defend myself or my wife should the occasion arise as I'm 6'3" but only go about 150 lbs. I would like to develop in this area as well as develop toward the option of competing if I so desired in the future. I'm also very much interested in the discipline and meditation aspect of MA to quite a degree. Some of the MA's I've been considering for both of us are Muay Thai, Kickboxing, Kempo or Wing Chun. Once I've developed in my intial art, I had thought about pursuing training in BJJ as well. Thank for your help.