PBI, It sounds like you are a full time instructor. Many of us have gone beyond the 'training is my life' stage. I'm 45. I have a job, a family, other interest. There are times I show up and train like my life depended on it. There are times where I give only 50%. As much as I try to leave the rest of my life behind, it may not always be possible. The instructor may not know about my day at the office, that I'm leaving on a business trip tomorrow, that a number of my servers just went down, that one of my many chronic injuries is flaring up. I pay good money to train, I train as a hobby. The fastest way for me to take my business elsewhere is for some instructor, or worse yet, some 20 something hot--shot who's never faced real professional pressure at work to tell me that I'm not training hard enough.