Here's an idea on countering the kicking flamingo    closed stance:   step with front foot at an angle 45 degrees toward your opponents 'front side'.   then, immediantly to a crescent kick (height even to her kick) with your other leg to parry the kick   then, immediantly follow with round kick with the foot that first stepped out   open stance:   same thing except step first with your back foot, the crescent with your other, and round with your back foot