Ok, so your looking for a martial art. Id give you a quick answer and tell you to take whatever i take... but youve gotten plenty of that already from visiting schools, so here ill try to help make you more informed. If your interested in the philosophical aspect of martial arts then Aikido is great. But all martial arts will give you some sort of philosophical advancement. Other biggies would be Kung Fu or Quigong. On to the more butt kicking part: The most widespread forms of martial arts in the USA are Karate, Tae Kwon Doe, and more recently Kickboxing. I personally take Tae Kwon Doe, but all of these are a great arts to study. They will give you a well rounded disipline of forms(training patterns), sparring(real combat training), and self defense(all the throws and holds). These arts are great because they are easy to start, and have tons of potential. However you have to be careful because in the USA some schools have in my opinion become rather soft, and no longer teach a useful MARTIAL art. I would personally avoid schools that have anyone under the age of 13 with a blackbelt. The other martial art that i study is Kung Fu. Which is a great Martial art if your looking for more Form training and less sparring and self defense. Plus in Kung Fu you will be given the opportunity to study many of the weapons in the martial arts world(Staff, Sword, Chain). I hope this helps a bit, if you want more info on any particular Martial Art im sure someone can give you a very detailed explanation. Its great that your doing research before you join though!! And welcome to the KarateForums!!!!