Thnx for all of your responses i know it is not right to fight for the sake of fighting. I dont know if you were refering to what we did or the fights my friend gets into, my friends dad died recently and he gets angered fast i try to stop him but i dont want to hurt him. regarding size he is taller than me by maybe four inchesbuti out weigh him we are about the same age but i have faster reflexes than him and beat him at point sparring a lot so i dont think its foolish cause it wasnt one bout just one submission so thats all.