advfhorn
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So I was talking to a 4th dan tonight about it and he said they were watching her last night when I was not there. They said her technique is good, and with men she is fine. They said they think she is timid with me because I am a dominant female. Even though I don’t hurt her, I hardly touch her she is just timid and afraid. The adult men she was confident with. Its fine if its me, I can accept that. I am happy with the fact that they are monitoring this. Seems like they will make sure we both get what we need. The other point they made, which is true …. These teens did not grow up with me (bc I switched dojos). She is more comfortable with those adults bc she had known them for a long time. Personally I believe testing and rank is individual to the Sensei and the student. My biggest concerns are about each of us getting what we need, everyone having fun, stay safe and learn. I feel bad she doesn’t want to work with me, but its okay.
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Suggestions on working with a special needs teen/adult who feels I am too agressive. I am a 45 yr old female testing for Blackbelt (with 8+ yrs experience). She is a 17 or 18 yr old female with special needs. She is quiet and not aggressive.
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My previous school only allowed his instructor to wear black ... from my experience as a woman doing this 8 years ... if a girl wants to wear black gi pants .... just let her
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IMHO: it should not be your decision, it should be your Sensei's decision
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It can be mounted to support post or installed right on my floor. I want it to have give. The wall mount ones I saw have a spring in them.
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its been a slow process (almost a year) but our new addition of a home dojo (hojo) is coming along. I was also looking into a Makawara. I saw the wall mounted ones and wondered about them but I have the floor space. I can mount it in the corner of the dojo. My concern more was height. I am 5'2" and my husband is 5'10". I more want it for feedback on proper technique. Any suggestions? I rather buy it if possible only bc my husband's time is taxed with building this new space among other things and if I ask him to build one more thing he may want a divorce lol I also considered removing the pad to an old standing bag and just wrapping the rope around it?
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Member of the Month for February 2021: advfhorn
advfhorn replied to Patrick's topic in KarateForums.com Announcements
oh wow. Thank you! You are very kind. I am humbled by this recognition. In the 8 years I have done karate you all have been a staple in my development in the martial arts. I see the amount of experience you all hold as awesome and diverse. It means a great deal to me to be recognized by you. I feel very fortunate to have found this group. I only post when I have something to say, I am always here taking in the vast amount of experience this group has to offer. Thank you! - and I love the rainbow belt -
I saw homedepot and walmart, and that is an option. To Bulltahr point I don't mind laying down a floor and just using mats as needed .. we were mostly concerned about too much weight and it being too cold .... being over a deck (which now has a roof)
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Can anyone get me a discount or a good price on puzzle mat flooring? We are building a "homo dojo" and will be covering 12 wide by about 18' long (the last two feet wide we have to cut around support posts every 8 feet) ... therefore we were leaning toward puzzle mats. What do you think?
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Is it ok with you to become a black belt through online...
advfhorn replied to Himokiri Karate's topic in Karate
What other people do does not bother me. IMHO anyone's blackbelt (or rank for that matter) is a visual recognition of where their Sensei believes they are at in learning or understanding. -
My experience of being with a Sensei for 7.5 years that something just as not quite "right" between us .... LEAVE! He is not the best teacher for you, stop wasting your time and $ and find a more suitable teacher for you. Teachers are not "one size fits all".
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my personal experience - my Goju Ryu Sensei of 6.5 yrs (I was 2nd Kyu) was strongly opposed to me starting Shorin Ryu (and I felt and still feel) for the wrong reasons. The Shorin Ryu instructor explained how hard it would be to both switch and dual study (he was very right) HOWEVER I did it anyway for 1 year and eventually quit the original (Goju Ryu) bc 1. the original Sensei stalled me out of advancement bc he was so mad 2. Doing both was much harder to learn new bc your body relies so much on muscle memory 3. With the above two reasons I got tired of paying for both Had I chose MMA or something totally different than two "karate styles", I prob would have faired better. For ME it worked out bc I learned the most important lesson and that was "i love karate and sometimes you are just not training in the right dojo for YOU"
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No I think as long as there "karate" there will be a Dogi and Obi Story: In the 7 years prior at my old school (that Sensei's age is about 40) sometimes people would forget their belt and they would usually just wear a dojo T-shirt and stand at the end of the line when we lined up (lower rank than white belt). I came to my new school (Sensei is about 70 yrs old) with no belt one day and the Sensei said "no how are you going to hold your gi closed?" ... I replied I was not going to wear it, just a dojo T-Shirt .... all I will say is .... Learn learned!!
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6.5 years into training I started dual training another similar karate style. My original instructor was not okay with it (its been 1 yr now). I highly doubt I will ever achieve Shodan under him. I am a high motivated respectful student and love my new dojo as well. I learn a lot, I practice a lot, martial arts is a way of life for me.
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- Are you still moving? One of my schools is talking about maybe moving to a smaller space. I hate to see that happen only bc another school I was in years ago, people quit bc they did not like the change.