thanks to all of those replied. its not like they are doing it to be mean, i think he wants me to catch up, but its also very off putting as i feel this is how its going to be all the time. As for the belts, they are either 1 or 2 belts higher than me. i dont have a problem sparring against them, if only i knew what the hell i was doing!! I want to be very flexable and fast so i think i will have to keep on practising stretching and agility training. is there any tips anyone can give me to help me improve and maybe give me something i could suprise the higher belts with please. Thanks in advance.