I met my boyfriend at my dojo 1.5 years ago. He was a black belt and I was a white belt (I had only been there for a month). I admit it was the last thing on my mind at the time and I had already decided that it was a bad idea to date anyone at my dojo. However he asked me out for a drink after class one day and one thing led to another.......... I think if it ended badly I would have definitely quit the dojo (he was there first) but things are still going strong and now we live together. Because of our schedules we always seem to go on different nights but even when we go together it`s not a big deal. It`s full contact and when we spar he doesn`t go easy on me because I`m his girlfriend, he treats me as he would anyone else of my rank, strength and ability. In fact when I mentioned he was my boyfried to some of the other guys from my dojo at the new year party they were so shocked, they had no idea. Even when we train at home and he is so strict, he doesn`t mince his words. At first I didn`t like it but now I am so happy to have someone who`s opinion I can really trust. Things have worked out well for us, maybe we are just lucky!