Practise is the Key Posted September 2, 2003 Posted September 2, 2003 Hi,! I fell in love with a girl and she is 22 hahahahahahaha and when we train everything i keep looking at her and when sparring i always want to pick her! does it affect my progress? I try to teach her somes katas It make me look coool!! she's very pretty!!!! I am still training however, having dabbled in Shotokan and Shotokai Karate. I am please to report that Kenshukai is one of the strongest and most disciplined styles ( i did not write this)
kempocos Posted September 2, 2003 Posted September 2, 2003 Yes , if you are 15 and she is 22, trust me she sees you as a good kid who helps her. If you stare at her she will think you are wierd. If you only train with her and I am sure you take it easy on her you will look the fool when everyone else who trains hard kicks your *. "If you don't want to get hit while sparring , join the cardio class"
Black Dragon Posted September 2, 2003 Posted September 2, 2003 Sounds like "love" is affecting your progress. Class time is not the time to have your head in the clouds. Easier said than done though I've seen Thai women before! So recognize or be hospitalized Cuz literally on a scale from one to ten I'm 25.
shotochem Posted September 2, 2003 Posted September 2, 2003 When your eyes are in the stars, you will get a fist to the face!!!! It could be a very painful lesson for you. I would keep my mind on training if I were you. Pain is only temporary, the memory of that pain lasts a lifetime.
kataman Posted September 2, 2003 Posted September 2, 2003 If she look good in a gi imagine in civilian wear HA HA HA,you have to keep in mine that martial art is very good for the social live,but you have to remember why you started the art, good luck my friend. I don't train for belt color I train to survive on the street
Drunken Monkey Posted September 2, 2003 Posted September 2, 2003 that's not love. that's just a randy fifteen year old pumped up on hormones... post count is directly related to how much free time you have, not how intelligent you are."When you have to kill a man it costs nothing to be polite."
G95champ Posted September 3, 2003 Posted September 3, 2003 Women kill athletes. LOL Like Micky told Rocky stay away from the dame there no good for training. (General George S. Patton Jr.) "It's the unconquerable soul of man, and not the nature of the weapon he uses, that ensures victory."
Warp Spider Posted September 3, 2003 Posted September 3, 2003 Yes , if you are 15 and she is 22, trust me she sees you as a good kid who helps her. If you stare at her she will think you are wierd. If you only train with her and I am sure you take it easy on her you will look the fool when everyone else who trains hard kicks your *. Maybe she's a "cougar?" I met a few of those when I was a youngin'. Paladin - A holy beat down in the name of God!
Cyberclown Posted September 3, 2003 Posted September 3, 2003 Well I am lucky. My soul-mate is my wife and my partner in all that I do. HOWEVER, I always tell my single students to keep the love-life outside the dojang. I do not allow students to hold hands, arm around each other, etc, while in the dojang. I find that by not letting them display overt affection for each other then I do not have to worry about the (almost inevitable) spat when the relationship goes south, since they are also not allowed to display dis-respect for their fellow students. I also strongly caution my single blackbelts not to use their influence in the dojang to "score" points with an admirer. They have a responsibility not to take advantage of a starry eyed new student. We have plenty of extra-curricular events throughout the year that they can become more familiar with each other without compromising their position in the school. The martial art community is a wonderful community to meet new people who share like values, I have seen several marriages over the years. HOWEVER, any student while in the training hall, should be thinking about one thing for that hour or so, their martial arts training. "We are all more alike than we are different."4th dan, WTF Kukkiwon certifiedAAU Coach/Referee (oops, not National though!)USTU Regional Referee (but I have stopped chasing the USTU around for a while)"One of a kind" instructor...*g*
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