Ghost Posted May 14, 2003 Share Posted May 14, 2003 I gaurantee that if you fight back hard you will feel alot better for it. Those are school rules you have to fight back im afraid. Just do it but dont go mad stay calm your not fighting for you life but make sure they are under no illusions as to who is best. Let us know how you get on and good luck mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
superleeds Posted May 17, 2003 Share Posted May 17, 2003 anger leads to the dark side...... Read a book! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mArTiAl_GiRl Posted May 17, 2003 Share Posted May 17, 2003 anger is negative, try to be positive and that means, you do something, that doesn't take energy away from you.. Kill is love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmy77 Posted May 22, 2003 Share Posted May 22, 2003 Thanks to all of you who wished me congrats - after nearly 2 weeks - married life is bliss... Back on the subject, You should not fight angry. You should however fight hard and fight nasty. You actually allow someone to make you angry - you let them control you, your emotions. "Don't hit at all if it is honorably possible to avoid hitting; but never hit soft." - Pres. Theodore Roosevelt "You don't have to like it, you just have to do it." - Captain Richard Marcinko, USN, Ret."Do more than what is required of you." - General George S. Patton"If you have to step on someone else to stand tall, then you truely are a small person." - ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheDevilAside Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Next time he slaps you.. slap him back. An eye for an eye, right? Then he most likely will try to hit you back... if he does so... THEN you can start to teach him a lesson. ...or you could just grab his wrist, twist it, and calmly tell him to never do it again... that's the least violent method to leave a lasting impression "If you're going through hell, keep going." - Sir Winston Churchill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synaesthesia Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 My suggestion: Talk to an administrator. You are under no moral or legal obligation to say who is bothering you, but it might be helpful to make it clear who is causing problems in school. Your choice. But at least make them aware of it, and ask what courses of action are avaible to you. You can be almost certain that they will provide reasources to help peacefully deal with the problem. If you make it clear to the administrators that your intentions are pure, and this kid subsequently puts you in physical danger, obviously you would have to evade or engage as the situation dictates. This kid is probably soft, yes, you could probably knock him down with one of your own slaps, indeed. But bullies are the kind of kid most likely to seek retribution. I don't know how common it is where you live, but I live in Canada, and here swarm beatings are commonplace amongst young people. (Not uncommonly lethal) Almost always it is revenge (over a girl, some previous physical or verbal confrontation), and typically the revenge of a real asshole. Remember, you are not protected by the legal system. There is a very real diffusion of responsibility in such cases. If you decide to teach him a lesson, I'm behind you. If you decide to go to the administration, I'm behind you. The world has neither the energy nor monentary resources to support such scum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Synaesthesia Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 I also would never allow anyone to hit me or disprespect me, my family or what i stand for. And keep in mind there are ways other than physica; fighting to defend your honor. I would in many cases allow people to disrespect me or what I stand for. I do it all the time, sometimes I find they're right! I also allow people to hit me... by not blocking fast enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmy77 Posted June 3, 2003 Share Posted June 3, 2003 Syn, I think you missed my point. Disrespecting is not the same as disagreeing. When I say disrespect i mean to act - verbally or physically with bad intent or in a maliciuos manner. Not that they don't agree with my ideals or way of life, hell my sister doesn't agree with 90% of my tenents and opinons. If a person is expressing their view and why they feel I am wrong - that is not disrespect. It is an expression of their opinion. However if that same person let loose a diatribe of my 'ill ' ways or would not allow for a retort than that is disrespectful. "Don't hit at all if it is honorably possible to avoid hitting; but never hit soft." - Pres. Theodore Roosevelt "You don't have to like it, you just have to do it." - Captain Richard Marcinko, USN, Ret."Do more than what is required of you." - General George S. Patton"If you have to step on someone else to stand tall, then you truely are a small person." - ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenris-wolf Posted June 10, 2003 Share Posted June 10, 2003 Next time he slaps you.. slap him back. An eye for an eye, right? Then he most likely will try to hit you back... if he does so... THEN you can start to teach him a lesson. ...or you could just grab his wrist, twist it, and calmly tell him to never do it again... that's the least violent method to leave a lasting impression Wow, that's pretty much exactly what I was going to say! Look man, there is NO way you should have to pretend to be "friends" with this bastard. Just don't even bother. Fine, clear the air, obviously this confrontation is going to happen unless you want to keep having him walk all over you. Just don't hurt him too much! Make your point, then walk away and get some new friends. Good luck! Let Us Turn The Jump Rope In Accord With Socialist Principles! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davison Posted June 18, 2003 Share Posted June 18, 2003 kchenault,i know a few people there,its only about 15 minutes from here.are u from there or something? Why punch someone when their on the ground when you can just kick them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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