Counterpart to the dojo bunny.

[White Warlock]

I'm inclined to agree with Karate_woman. While there will always be the pathetic and the predator, attraction toward another is not a 'wrong' thing. If i were to find someone i was attracted to in a dojo, i would likely 'check' to see if friendship was in the wings. However, i don't believe i would feel comfortable making any 'moves,' per se, in the training hall. This is a trapped atmosphere, much like a job or a college classroom. Becoming friends is entirely acceptable, but bringing it beyond that... it should be taken outside. I also do not believe there should be a differentiation between that of a student and an instructor.

 

I did encounter one student that kept taking advantage of pauses in training to flirt with one particular student and i ended up having to correct him. My concern stemmed from the fact he was both distracting her and himself, which would eventually cause someone to be injured.

[delta1]

what do you think would be a good name for the male counterpart to the dojo bunny? You know guys who go to class to pick up girls. What is a good name for them ...??????

 

Rabbit hunters?

[Ironberg]

sharks... LOL

 

"but I didn't know this style had groundfighting??"

 

[spinninggumby]

Don Wong?

 

I don't mean to be an a$$hole with no sense of humor, but...I find that mildly offensive, and it's not just cause I'm an Asian person.

[equaninimus]

I could be completely offensive, if you wish me to be.

[spinninggumby]

I could be completely offensive, if you wish me to be.

 

Same here, but for the sake of this thread and this forum, I strongly recommend that you refrain from engaging me in a flame war ^^

[equaninimus]

Gumbob, I apologize if I have offended your obviously tender sensitivities.

 

considering my comment is a full page back, and over a week in the past, I wonder if this isn't an attempt to pull an "oh, poor me..I'm soooo picked on...everyone please feel sorry for me," ploy?

 

Feel free to flame me, I shan't respond, but if it makes your little tender bottom feel less bruised, please do so.

 

[spinninggumby]

Gumbob, I apologize if I have offended your obviously tender sensitivities.

 

considering my comment is a full page back, and over a week in the past, I wonder if this isn't an attempt to pull an "oh, poor me..I'm soooo picked on...everyone please feel sorry for me," ploy?

 

Feel free to flame me, I shan't respond, but if it makes your little tender bottom feel less bruised, please do so.

 

 

Er...what does the time of response have to do with anything? I hope you're not just another martial-arts obsessed insecure meathead looking to prove himself on an online forum after getting beat up too much in grade school, something unfortunately too common. Btw, I just pretty much came back today or yesterday so it's not like I regularly visit this place so forgive me for not being "up-to-date" on my responses. Furthermore, I'm not a troll who desires to flame people, and engaging in childish back-and-forth banter isn't something exactly constructive. Even your time is more precious than that, haha. But I think you do have some issues and inner demons with that condescending attitude of yours. Hope you can get that sorted out in the future. Peace! ^^

[mskickerusa]

I understand not breaching the instructor student wall, buit what about 2 students. I was dating one of my fellow students for a while. While i would never think about any of teh kids i teach that way (well, they are only 6) i dont think student relation ships ae wrong. Any one have feelings on this?

[Shorinryu Sensei]

What do I call students in my dojo that are there to hit on the women?

 

Competition...then ex-students!