Quitting at Black Belt

[ryanryu]

The idea of an endless journey is something that resonates with those who continue to train past black belt, but I think it falls flat with most people. The black belt is a tangible goal, a status symbol, and, imo, a real measure of skill. It’s an accomplishment to be proud of and also seems like a natural breaking point in training.

Yes, it would be bittersweet to see a student leave at that point. If only because of the bond you’ve formed with them over the time spent training. It is like how any graduation is bittersweet, honestly.

In my mind, if we’re comparing situations, the bigger tragedy is if a student leaves in the high ranks just before black belt. There’s something about the validation, the confirmation, the “sealing” of things that comes with a black belt. It seems a shame to come so close and walk away without that "final" experience.

[bushido_man96]

Good points, too, @ryanryu.

On a side note, at our recent testing when this kid I mentioned read his essay aloud, he stated he doesn't plan to quit, he plans to keep going.  So we'll see what we've got now.