singularity6 Posted May 10, 2018 Share Posted May 10, 2018 We have a student who has a few black belts. Judo, Uechi Ryu, Naganata and I think Iaido. He brings his grandson to class, who's 10, and the same rank as I am.Our instructors treat him as a black belt (even though his knowledge of our style is somewhere around green.) 5th Geup Jidokwan Tae Kwon Do/Hap Ki Do(Never officially tested in aikido, iaido or kendo) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JazzKicker Posted May 10, 2018 Author Share Posted May 10, 2018 Once again my experience was confirmed. Last week I visited a school that was part of my old organization, I talked briefly with the master instructor before a class. I just asked if he had a schedule for adult classes, and he asked about my experience. I told him, and we chatted about the people we knew, etc. He said he'd have to talk to his master (the owner of the chain), took my name & information- and I never heard back.Then I went to my old JKD/MMA coaches new facility. He was happy to see me, showed me around, said I was welcome to come in and use the place after work if I just wanted to work out, told me he'd reinstituted JKD and CQC classes now that he had more space- so yeah, I'll go where I'm welcome and leave the politics and belts behind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneKickWonder Posted May 10, 2018 Share Posted May 10, 2018 Once again my experience was confirmed. Last week I visited a school that was part of my old organization, I talked briefly with the master instructor before a class. I just asked if he had a schedule for adult classes, and he asked about my experience. I told him, and we chatted about the people we knew, etc. He said he'd have to talk to his master (the owner of the chain), took my name & information- and I never heard back.Then I went to my old JKD/MMA coaches new facility. He was happy to see me, showed me around, said I was welcome to come in and use the place after work if I just wanted to work out, told me he'd reinstituted JKD and CQC classes now that he had more space- so yeah, I'll go where I'm welcome and leave the politics and belts behind.I don't think they're all like that.Every club I've had involvement with would welcome anyone regardless of experience, just as long as they show common courtesy and a desire to learn.But there was one club I enquired at at they were all keen to get me in for a face to face chat, right up until I told them I had some years experience. Then they made their excuses. They didn't say no, but they did say they'd have to talk to various chiefs and organise an appointment and generally tactfully try to put me off. So I didn't go there. But plenty of others have been very welcoming. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spartacus Maximus Posted May 11, 2018 Share Posted May 11, 2018 Whether or not anyone is welcomed anywhere depends largely on the attitude with which the guest comes calling. An experienced guest is no different from a complete neophyte. Be polite, respectful and modest with an open mind. This is a universal concept and it is understood everywhere by all martial arts practitioners. In a few cases it is preferable to downplay one’s experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TJ-Jitsu Posted May 13, 2018 Share Posted May 13, 2018 I can’t speak for anyone other than myself and the places I’ve been. By the same token, I’ve seen bjj guys go to judo with their blue belts on.... in quite certain there aren’t blue belts in judo....I wear a white belt in judo because that’s my rank- in judo. I hope that the belt you were wearing would be whichever tank you’ve acquired in THAT style would be implied.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MatsuShinshii Posted May 13, 2018 Share Posted May 13, 2018 Once again my experience was confirmed. Last week I visited a school that was part of my old organization, I talked briefly with the master instructor before a class. I just asked if he had a schedule for adult classes, and he asked about my experience. I told him, and we chatted about the people we knew, etc. He said he'd have to talk to his master (the owner of the chain), took my name & information- and I never heard back.Then I went to my old JKD/MMA coaches new facility. He was happy to see me, showed me around, said I was welcome to come in and use the place after work if I just wanted to work out, told me he'd reinstituted JKD and CQC classes now that he had more space- so yeah, I'll go where I'm welcome and leave the politics and belts behind.For the life of me this makes no sense. Again all are welcome. That is not to say that they would maintain current grade but if a student from a sister school came for training they would be evaluated and place according to their skill and knowledge. Maybe its the art and the politics that go with it but I just do not understand this mentality. My advice... if this is prevalent within this organization I'd be looking elsewhere. There are plenty of other arts and other instructors out there that would be more than happy for you to train with them. Having said that I must ask how you are addressing this with these instructors? I hate to condemn others without the facts. Example; if you come off as braggadocios about your experience this can tend to turn instructors off and make them think you would be one of those students that always has something to say and always questions their teaching. Not to say you are this example but sometimes we are proud of our accomplishments and tend to put them out there and this comes out and sounds like bragging without us realizing it sounds this way. However if you are coming to them in earnest and they reject you then you didn't need to train under them and would be better off finding a different school. I just can't imagine this happening not just once but several times. It's mind boggling. The person who succeeds is not the one who holds back, fearing failure, nor the one who never fails-but the one who moves on in spite of failure. Charles R. Swindoll Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sensei8 Posted May 14, 2018 Share Posted May 14, 2018 Has anyone here ever had a visiting BB question your decision of not upholding their BB in an unprofessional manner?? How'd you deal with it??I just politely ask them to leave; opinions vary, his/hers and/or mine. However, this is MY dojo, end of story!! I've had them get in my face, but I'm not that easily concerned. Put your hands on me, well, time to do what I do the best...give free karate lessons. **Proof is on the floor!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vantheman Posted May 14, 2018 Share Posted May 14, 2018 At my (kempo) school, we had a nidan in Aikido start training with us. Given that we don't rigorously divide classes by rank anymore, we allowed him to train with the black belts/upper level adults. He'd been doing martial arts for longer than most of us, so it didn't make sense to send him to the beginners' classes. Seeing that Kempo is not much of a "purebred" martial art anyway, it's not uncommon for black belts from across the country to have limited overlap in technique anyway. I believe he technically is considered a Shodan in our school, but he's more interested in training than moving up the ranks, so it doesn't make much of a difference anyhow. Van Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JazzKicker Posted May 14, 2018 Author Share Posted May 14, 2018 I think Van's school has a good way of handling it, not making a big deal about rank and giving people a chance to fit in and train. Last fall I visited a club that had JKD classes, no problem for me to walk on and train. No belts, no problem.The times it was a problem, it never got past the "Hey, can I come and train here? question." Certainly not a confrontation like the previous question. But it does remind me of a story from about 10 years ago.The club I was training at was folding up, so I visited a TKD school that also offered, they said, Hapkido, with Korean masters. I talked to the GM, he told me it was $1300/yr, but we could "work something out", that he had a Hapkido master coming in a few weeks and I was welcome to come train.So I came back in a few weeks, when they had a class scheduled, and a young black belt and the new Korean Hapkido guy were there, though not the GM. The young one said, sure, you can train, so I put on my uniform. Then they had me come in the office. They wanted me to pay 6 months in advance, plus $20 for the night, and $75 for the month. This, they said, was to "prove my commitment" . I said, well, I'm already committed, I've been doing this for years. And most schools offer a trial, and certainly don't ask you to pay for 6 months before you've even seen a class.I was ready to leave, but they caved, and said, since you're already here and dressed, the master would like to train with you a bit. So we worked out, and I realized (and they admitted later) they were testing me. Needless to say I never went back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bushido_man96 Posted May 15, 2018 Share Posted May 15, 2018 I can’t speak for anyone other than myself and the places I’ve been. By the same token, I’ve seen bjj guys go to judo with their blue belts on.... in quite certain there aren’t blue belts in judo....I wear a white belt in judo because that’s my rank- in judo. I hope that the belt you were wearing would be whichever tank you’ve acquired in THAT style would be implied....I feel like if one is just their training, and they just wear their regular uniform and belt to have the complete uniform, and they aren't necessarily pursuing rank in that school, then I think I'd be ok with it. If they would happen to decide to start trying to attain rank in that school, then it might change the situation. https://www.haysgym.comhttp://www.sunyis.com/https://www.aikidoofnorthwestkansas.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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