getting run over

[mmljpp]

I am a meek person who belives that i should not argue and let things get to me but they do how much is to much i getting bullyed and walked over because of my meekness but when i exploded i exploded and i feel bad how should i deal with it thanks for reading

[The BB of C]

I don't think you should be that way. You need to stand up for yourself, argue, and sometimes fight. It's a part of life and it's necissary. If you want to deal with your explosiveness, start standing up for yourself and you won't be angry anymore. All you're doing when you don't stand up is letting negative energy, emotions, mantras, etc. build up inside you. That's like throwing nitro glycorine into a room filled with gun powder and TNT.

May I ask how old you are?

[bushido_man96]

I agree with the BB of C. You have to argue and make yourself heard from time to time. Now, there is nothing wrong with picking your battles, either. But, that is where you should start.

[mmljpp]

thank you everyone for the help i accidently posted another form of the same thing bushidoman but i couldnt find this one sorry for the exture work

[mmljpp]

and my age is 25

[The BB of C]

Wow. That's not good. I think you really should take what Bushido_man96 and I suggested.

[mmljpp]

i know i have been doing what you all said and it is beging to work thank you all lots

[The BB of C]

You're welcome. I'm glad it's working. This is all stuff I was taught by my older brother when I was thirteen years old and it made me who I am today. Even in your age, as the next couple years go by, you'll notice dramatic all-around changes in yourself and in the way other people treat you.

[yingampyang]

You should never be afriad to voice your opinion , we live in a free world and u have the right of speech. And if a battle or fight may come from thing then thats how it is.