mmljpp Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I am a meek person who belives that i should not argue and let things get to me but they do how much is to much i getting bullyed and walked over because of my meekness but when i exploded i exploded and i feel bad how should i deal with it thanks for reading Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The BB of C Posted January 23, 2008 Share Posted January 23, 2008 I don't think you should be that way. You need to stand up for yourself, argue, and sometimes fight. It's a part of life and it's necissary. If you want to deal with your explosiveness, start standing up for yourself and you won't be angry anymore. All you're doing when you don't stand up is letting negative energy, emotions, mantras, etc. build up inside you. That's like throwing nitro glycorine into a room filled with gun powder and TNT.May I ask how old you are? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bushido_man96 Posted January 24, 2008 Share Posted January 24, 2008 I agree with the BB of C. You have to argue and make yourself heard from time to time. Now, there is nothing wrong with picking your battles, either. But, that is where you should start. https://www.haysgym.comhttp://www.sunyis.com/https://www.aikidoofnorthwestkansas.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmljpp Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 thank you everyone for the help i accidently posted another form of the same thing bushidoman but i couldnt find this one sorry for the exture work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmljpp Posted February 2, 2008 Author Share Posted February 2, 2008 and my age is 25 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The BB of C Posted February 2, 2008 Share Posted February 2, 2008 Wow. That's not good. I think you really should take what Bushido_man96 and I suggested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mmljpp Posted February 4, 2008 Author Share Posted February 4, 2008 i know i have been doing what you all said and it is beging to work thank you all lots Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The BB of C Posted February 5, 2008 Share Posted February 5, 2008 You're welcome. I'm glad it's working. This is all stuff I was taught by my older brother when I was thirteen years old and it made me who I am today. Even in your age, as the next couple years go by, you'll notice dramatic all-around changes in yourself and in the way other people treat you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yingampyang Posted February 21, 2008 Share Posted February 21, 2008 You should never be afriad to voice your opinion , we live in a free world and u have the right of speech. And if a battle or fight may come from thing then thats how it is. I think that there is no 1 style , and that to truly become a great martial artist and person you must take information from where ever you can. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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