Dating "in-school"

[Karateka_latino]

As a matter of Fact.. I've dated girls from the "forbidden" places...School, students, work..etc.. and those have been my best relationships ever.

 

On the other hands. Girls that i've met in parties, bars, .. those relationship hasn't gone anywhere and ended badly

[monkeygirl]

OK Alphabet boys are gone...no problems with them now.

 

After reading some of your posts, I feel a bit better.

 

However, now I have a problem...one of the students' brothers has a crush on me! A 16-year-old...and he's really cute! I've never even SPOKEN to the guy, but he has a crush on me. How do I know?

 

HIS MOTHER TOLD ME! I'll admit it's kinda lame, but at least he's close with his mother He told his mom and sister (the student) to say hi to me, so they did. The mom was like "he thinks you're pretty cute".

 

Getting to my point: is it okay to date this students' brother? He's coming after me first, and I'm not gonna chase him. So if he asks me out, is that okay?? I told my mom what happened and she just kinda giggled.

 

Oh and he's thinking about joining classes...not sure if it's because he wants to train or if he has alterior motives

 

Of course, I would keep it out of the dojo...that's a HUGE no-no!!! One of our instructors got kicked out for ... let's just say he was doing some rather "interesting" katas with his girlfriend after hours...idiot

[ZeRo]

date in school is very bad and it does nothin for the club

[three60roundhouse]

[color=indigo]XpOiSoN FrEeX, to me, everything isn't for the club! If I met a guy I liked at my school (not gonna happen, no teenage guys at my school ), I would have no problem trying out a relationship! I'm single! Why not? We date people from high school, why not from MA school (actually, I go to an all girls school, so finding guys is hard! )[/color]

[ramymensa]

About falling in love with one in dojo

 

had a crush on my sensei. Fortunatelly I reminded myself he is twice my age and he is too short (a little taller than me and I really like tall guys )

 

So it ended before it began. Fortunatelly because one of his "helping hands", a young woman shodan had a crush on him for years and she tends to be jealous on every new "wanna be mrs sensei". Uhhh Imagine what i would have had to endure from her.

 

I guess it's impossible not to feel "something" for anyone in the dojo. it's in the air

[ZeRo]

[color=indigo]XpOiSoN FrEeX, to me, everything isn't for the club! If I met a guy I liked at my school (not gonna happen, no teenage guys at my school ), I would have no problem trying out a relationship! I'm single! Why not? We date people from high school, why not from MA school (actually, I go to an all girls school, so finding guys is hard! )[/color]

 

no i didnt mean pupils (athough i still dont think its a good idea) i ment teachers and students.

[three60roundhouse]

[color=indigo]For me, that still might be possible (the teacher/student thing) since one of the classes i have taught has a few 14 year old guys.....[/color]

[Karateka_latino]

I insist.

 

You don't have control of your heart and with who you are going to fall in love with. You just love a person or you don't.

 

If we could choose who to fall in love with, there wouldnt be ANY problems on the relationship.

 

I don't see a problem in dating someone you met on the Dojo. Why not?

[Karateka_latino]

Xpoison FrEex i have a situation for you.

 

One girl joins to your Dojo.

 

Nice girl, beautifull as if God make her just for YOU. She likes you, is single you are single too , Her parents don't have any problem with her dating. She's on the right age.

 

and again She LIkes YOU

 

Can you honestly say you woulnd't TAke her on a date because "its bad for the school"?? Come on lol

[ZeRo]

well hard situation. i probably would if all thoughs things were right BUT i still think its not good coz what happens if you have to spar her or you get distracted in class and stuff. hay you know what i mean.