bushido_man96 Posted September 7, 2006 Share Posted September 7, 2006 for me agression comes when i am underperforming.if im doing crap and know i can do better, i get really annoyed at myself, and take it out on whatever is closest.I have this problem as well. All of a sudden, every inanimate object just gets in my way! https://www.haysgym.comhttp://www.sunyis.com/https://www.aikidoofnorthwestkansas.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angel05GT Posted September 7, 2006 Author Share Posted September 7, 2006 lots of good answers! thanx!see ive found lately that when im working with someone, i feel that because im not mad at that person i almost tend to hold back a little. unless they tell me, try to hit me as hard as you can. if my sensei sais to, i can no problem. its almost like i need permission ,in a sense, to hit harder. and i cant seem to break myself of it. i guess im afraid to hit someone by accident "Disqualification before Dishonor" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiffy Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 Yep, exactly the same as me. It's because you are a nice person and don't want to hurt someone. I guess the key is to try and foget that. Have the mentality that if they face up to you, they are the enemy. Then you can go and have a drink together once it's over. The mind is like a parachute, it only works when it's open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bushido_man96 Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 I feel like I sometimes have too much control as well. When someone really cranks me though, I tend to let them have it. https://www.haysgym.comhttp://www.sunyis.com/https://www.aikidoofnorthwestkansas.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiffy Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 What do you mean by too much control? Is there such a thing? The mind is like a parachute, it only works when it's open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hurricane Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 I feel like I sometimes have too much control as well. When someone really cranks me though, I tend to let them have it.I have the opposite problem. Too little control. Somehow, I am really trying to have control but I just tend to snap out of it. I guess this would be a topic for another thread, but maybe any of you has similar experiences and can tell me what you have done about it without sacrificing power/distance/speed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bushido_man96 Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 What do you mean by too much control? Is there such a thing?Well, sometimes when you throw a counter, but pull it a little, and the other person doesn't realize you could have taken their head off, so they don't respect it. Also, getting close, but not connecting. https://www.haysgym.comhttp://www.sunyis.com/https://www.aikidoofnorthwestkansas.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bushido_man96 Posted September 8, 2006 Share Posted September 8, 2006 I feel like I sometimes have too much control as well. When someone really cranks me though, I tend to let them have it.I have the opposite problem. Too little control. Somehow, I am really trying to have control but I just tend to snap out of it. I guess this would be a topic for another thread, but maybe any of you has similar experiences and can tell me what you have done about it without sacrificing power/distance/speed?This just comes with time. Slow down a little, and have your partner slow down too. Then do a faster match. It will come, don't worry. https://www.haysgym.comhttp://www.sunyis.com/https://www.aikidoofnorthwestkansas.com Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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