Paranoia in the martial arts

[RichardHangHong]

I was just wondering if anyone here thought that there's just too much paranoia in the martial arts world?

I've had quite a few experiences with a several associations over the last couple of years and it seems to me that the most prominent paranoia in the karate world is within Goju Ryu. I'll elaborate later but for now, what does everyone else think?

[AngelaG]

Perhaps martial arts draws a more intense kind of person, thus leading to these heightened feelings?

[bushido_man96]

Please elaborate more on your general idea of the paranoia. I think I know what you are getting at, but would like a little more to go on.

[RichardHangHong]

Well, I've had a few experiences where I've been told by various instructors I can't do this, not allowed to do that.

Here's a run down of my most recent experience/incident.

I was having a discussion with someone on another forum and they asked if I hold dan grades in other styles as my club is a blend of 2 styles. I said no, but a couple of Shotokan instructors (9th and 6th dan) both thought I was a 3rd dan (I'm a 2nd dan). I said that I haven't asked my instructor from the other style what grade he rates me at as I thought it was unnecessary.

A week later I got an email forwarded by his assistant chief instructor saying that he had seen me mention his name several times on the forum and that I must stop using his name to add credibility to my club and style. He also made a emphasised point of telling me he consdered me "a beginner who only trains once a week at his dojo". Why he couldn't do it himself is beyond me but anyway, I promptly replied and respectfully apologised even though I felt what was said was unfounded. I went back onto the forums to check and review my posts for these several instances that he referred to. In the last 3 months I had said his name just 3 times. And on each occurence I was highly respectful, saying what a good instructor he is and how much I enjoy training with him and that I wish I could do more but my timetable doesn't allow me to. I also made no implications or other comments that could be seen as him "adding credibility to our club".

I've left the issue alone now, but am taking note that this particular person seems to be a bit paranoid. I don't have classes anywhere near his ones so it can't possibly be that he's worried I'm going to try and steal his students away from him. Not that I would do that anyway. All I'm interested in is just training and developing my karate even further.

There were another couple of instances where he gave me an ultimatum of either bring my whole club over to their style and association or I couldn't train with him anymore. They said this because they wanted their style taught their way and didn't want it being diluted (implied "by someone who was not pure Goju Ryu"). I promptly refused as it wasn't fair on my students that to them (I have about 200 students + another 100 in a branch of my club in another area run by a friend of mine), funnily enough, he backpedalled and I am still training with him regularly. I said I would happily re-take my grades if need be and join his association as an individual but he said it's not necessary.

I really don't know why they are like this towards me. It's like a game of hot and cold. Sometimes they're really helpful and friendly towards me, giving me hints and tips on how to improve my technique, knowledge, etc and then other times it's cold shoulder acting like they've got to hide all their knowledge from me so I can't "steal" it away from them. It's crazy I tell you, crazy!

[bushido_man96]

I understand what you are going through. It is all political. I think the main thing is he wants your business. What he tells you is that he wants your 300 students under his organization, and what he doesn't tell you is that a percentage of your income, bearing his organiztion name, or being under the umbrella, or whatever, will be owed to him, or you will have to have each of your members pay a membership fee to him, or something like that.

All of the politics of the martial arts really makes me pretty sick. The GM of my current style is very narrow minded, and feels that TKD is "all you need." I love TKD, but I could round myself out. I also have other interests, and I will not let someone I see only two times a year, and talk to for maybe 5 minutes, decide what is and is not good for me to do.

[TigerDude]

The way the Martial Arts schools operate lends itself to people showing their petty side.

1. It's very personal. It's not like buying bolts at the hardware store.

2. The instructor is teaching you, in effect, how to teach other people the same thing. It's a tough business model.

3. It is the instructor's bread basket (or rice bowl if you will). People can get very funny about things that impact their ability to make a living - both real and imagined.

[Jiffy]

The answers before me basically sum it up. Martial Arts is very political. It is generally about two things, one that was mentioned, one that wasn't.

1) Money. As mentioned, if you are teaching, you are challenging someone elses ability to teach. Many people feel this threat and some act upon it, even though it may not actually be so.

2) Ego. Many instructors want everything their way so they remain the big fish in the little pool. That is why many GMs only promote the one style, because they are the be all and end all of that style, but when it comes to MA in general, they are not.

[cathal]

It's unfortunate that this particular person never bothered to check your posts to determine if this was actually occuring.

[jaymac]

I feel for you Richard Gregory. I purposely do not mention names of any individual student or instructor of our school just for the same reason: paranoia. Even though I can only speak highly of our school and instructor, it would not be taken well if I mentioned names.

[PlasmaShock]

i dont understand what you mean by paranoia?