Azula Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 just love your husband and make sure he loves you back, screw business. Familiy is #1. He and you should mix your opinions and make one rule for both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azula Posted August 14, 2006 Share Posted August 14, 2006 Sorry for sounding a bit weird, im just a very romantic person...i get fired up about these kinds of things. I don't know maybe it's a disability who knows,. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akaratechick Posted August 15, 2006 Author Share Posted August 15, 2006 just love your husband and make sure he loves you back, screw business. Familiy is #1. He and you should mix your opinions and make one rule for both.Really good advice, two totally different point of views can really work well together when given a chance and no you don't sound weird "All your life you are told the things you cannot do. They will say you're not good enough, strong enough or talented enough; you're the wrong height or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or achieve this. THEY WILL TELL YOU NO, a thousand times no, until all the no's become meaningless. ………..…. “AND YOU WILL TELL THEM YES."Nike Ad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaymac Posted August 15, 2006 Share Posted August 15, 2006 Is he the head instructor? I really feel that children's classes and adult classes should be seperate, but if the head instructor is making the decisions (husband or not), then it should be followed. Changes will be made if the other adults in the class begin dropping out because they do not enjoy training with children or they actually address the head instructor with requests to have a seperate training for only adults. If you are going for black belt and the head instructor is your husband, in the future, the school can only become stronger if you support each other and not let marriage conflict with business. A great martial artist is one who is humble and respectful of others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akaratechick Posted August 16, 2006 Author Share Posted August 16, 2006 Is he the head instructor? I really feel that children's classes and adult classes should be seperate, but if the head instructor is making the decisions (husband or not), then it should be followed. Yes, he is the head instructor, I think what I have decided is that since he has a full time job and does this on the side (two nights a week) that I will help grow the class and stay within the organization but branch out probably with the kids after a couple of years if not sooner, but stay within the organization, that way everyone is happy "All your life you are told the things you cannot do. They will say you're not good enough, strong enough or talented enough; you're the wrong height or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or achieve this. THEY WILL TELL YOU NO, a thousand times no, until all the no's become meaningless. ………..…. “AND YOU WILL TELL THEM YES."Nike Ad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiffy Posted August 16, 2006 Share Posted August 16, 2006 Yep, as previously menioned, that's very similar to what I was thinking of doing. I think this is the best way to do what you want while still keeping everyone happy. Good Decision!! The mind is like a parachute, it only works when it's open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Akaratechick Posted August 17, 2006 Author Share Posted August 17, 2006 thanks, I am excited because I just found out I will be able to help teach on Tues. and Wed. in addition to training on Mon. and Thurs. We are starting a lil bits class of 5 to 10 yr olds and I am going to help with that. I love teaching kids "All your life you are told the things you cannot do. They will say you're not good enough, strong enough or talented enough; you're the wrong height or the wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or achieve this. THEY WILL TELL YOU NO, a thousand times no, until all the no's become meaningless. ………..…. “AND YOU WILL TELL THEM YES."Nike Ad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jiffy Posted August 17, 2006 Share Posted August 17, 2006 I envy you. I love kids, but I must admit, teaching adults is more my phorte'. The mind is like a parachute, it only works when it's open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Azula Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 i suggest you hug your husband and tell him your his other half. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alsey Posted August 18, 2006 Share Posted August 18, 2006 sounds good. hope it all works out! "Gently return to the simple physical sensation of the breath. Then do it again, and again, and again. Somewhere in this process, you will come face-to-face with the sudden and shocking realization that you are completely crazy. Your mind is a shrieking, gibbering madhouse on wheels." - ven. henepola gunaratana Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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