Son Goku the monkeyking Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 um i got my first full fledged date on friday, i am takin the girl to see the T.I. movie ( T.I. is a rapper for those of u who dont know that) ATL and i am kinda nervouse. reason one is that the girls ex-boyfriend in the school is in my first period class and he is always talkin about how the girl dose not really like me cuss she plays around with me alot. so i was nervous that he might try to do somethin and mess this stuff up, becaseu they are still friends.the whole school practicly no about it on account of the fact that she told alot of people and i am a freshman and she's a sophmore.so what should i remember to do or not do, i am already paying for the tickets, and food. man i am nervous.PEACE
P.A.L Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 1- do not bow for her2- don't say "osu"3- don't show her your skills in kongFu for 4 hours4- don't talk to much5- don't give a damn it's a win win situation for you since you are the freshman and she is the older one.
HumanTyphoon Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Haha...if my experience from watching 40 year old virgin tell me anything....ask questions..."So (insert name here), how are you doing?""I dunno, how are you doin?""Great, what do you wanna do?""Hmmm, what do you wanna do?"...so that wasn't the best example.........But seriously, just be yourself and find connections to the girl. If you're gonna watch a movie....you might not get to talk to her as much. Although, maybe after the movie while walking to the exit or something...or waiting in line, just talk and make a conversation. Say something interesting like..."Do you ever wonder why (insert interesting thing to talk about here)....?"OH OH OH yay......THAT WAS A QUESTION!!!! But anyways, they say that a person who is overworried might not be as efficient then if they were calm and unworried...so relax and have fun! If you take a crooked path and have to go through a cliff. Either hope there is a bridge, or learn to fly.
lordtariel Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Just relax, it's a first date, it's not like you're going to propose or anything. If you spend all your time worried that you're going to mess up, you'll be so wound that you won't enjoy yourself. And odds are if she see's you're not enjoying yourself with her, she's not going to respond too well. Good Luck! There's no place like 127.0.0.1
Spirit At Choice Posted March 30, 2006 Posted March 30, 2006 Definitely just RELAX. If she's going out with you, you know she likes you. Don't worry about what others think. It's like when the sensei walks by and you mess up because you were thinking about him watching you instead of thinking about what you were doing. White belt mind. Black belt heart....Rejoice and be glad!
marie curie Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 Good luck!!! My advice- Have fun! I know that I always enjoyed myself a lot more when I thought that he was having a good time. Also, if she tries to pay for herself, let her.... some girls feel weird being paid for, but its awesome that you are offering. I'm sure it will make her feel like you like her. And if you do something awkward, like try to put your arm around her and miss and hit your arm against the chair and make a bunch of noise or something like that- don't flip- she probably thinks its adorable and is going to like you all the more. So really, you can't mess up if you just chill and have a good time You suck-train harder.......................Don't block with your faceA good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving. -Lao Tzu
Kara Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 Ah Cute.I'm sure it went fine....eh..... KBear"lick your wounds, anxious for the next ones"
Jeet Kune Do Posted March 31, 2006 Posted March 31, 2006 Be yourself, act like you don't care about that guy who is trying to mess it up, and eventually he will back off A drop of sweat spent in practice is a drop of blood saved in a battle.A person who say it cannot be done should not interrupt the man doing it.
TKDguy Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 First, Look straight in her eyes when you talk to her, dont look at her lips or anything or her body.., and dont talk about the weather becuase although they will reply with " yeah it is suppose to be nice tommorrow", they really dont want to be talking about it,humor always works, try that..and when you are with her, dont like pummell her in the theater or wherever, kind of backoff,women like what they cant have... be cocky and funny.. and oh my god, be SELF confident, and dont try to impress her, because women have a 6th sense were they can read men like a book and know when your not being real with them... I am getting my degree in Date Psychology Andrew, P.S. - have a great time.. "Who Dares, Wins"
Bluetulipx Posted April 5, 2006 Posted April 5, 2006 and dont try to impress her, because women have a 6th sense were they can read men like a book and know when your not being real with them... Wow. I need to borrow you. I cannot tell you how many guys play the 'not being real' game on me ... and I just think ... 'dude, don't bother ...' (that's the nice version anyway).How nice to see this information being written by a guy
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