being a man

[Goju_boi]

I was just thinking about this while looking at my name, Goju_boi.I was thinking why did I put this as my name when I'm legally considered a man?Well what I'm getting to is , when do you think that a boy becomes a man?

[y2_sub]

When he starts dating , lol .. Beside Goju_man would be an ugly name

[Superfoot]

From the moment he take responsibility for other people, not just himself.

[supajuice]

it's the cool guy! its gojo_boi ! NO wait, its gojo_b- man?!

[Goju_boi]

I like what superfoot said.As for y2-sub I haven't started dating but I'm legally an adult , so does that make me still a boy?Then supajuice , I don't have any idea what youre saying.

[Drgnslyer]

From the moment he take responsibility for other people, not just himself.

I double that.

IMHO, being able to actively understand, and respond to the emotions of the people around you is when you make that leap.

Now..this doesn't mean you have to turn into a blubbering something-or-other when someone you know is upset about something...but being able to understand why they are upset, and actively help them to overcome whatever it is that's bothering them.

[Goju_boi]

hmm, gotcha

[jnpnshr411]

I think everyone becomes a man when it is needed of them. I have seen 23 yr. old guys that were still boys and some even older.

[Goju_boi]

I've seen 40 somethings act childish before too

[Drgnslyer]

haha..i've seen that all too often...and even seen some 10 year olds catch you off guard with a piece of incredibly sage insight into a problem.