Anyone willing to give advice? It'd be very much appreciated

[Why_Worry]

Please help, looking for advice on more personal issues.

This is kidna confusing to explain so i will try to say it all but i dont want to give too much information either in case this person looks here although i dont know why they would be, but still.

Anyway, (i'm 14) there is this girl that i have liked for about 2 or 3 years and a couple of months ago we wnet out with each other. But she broke up with me after a week saying that we were too different and it would just hurt more later if we had to. So now it seems as though she still likes me too and its kinda confusing. I dont want to put her in an awkard position by asking her out again after that, but i think i tmight make us happy again but i dont really knwo for sure. Her friends were trying to get us to dance together at the last school dance, but we were both kidna shy and a little emabarressed. I could ask one of my friends to tell her that i still like her and i plan to ask her to dance at the next school dance without telling her i specifically told them to say that so that way at least she will know. I am also thinking of asking her to dance at the next school dance, but thats not for another couple of months.

So yeah...if anyone has any advice on what i shoudl do or just an opinion of this all then that would be really appreciated. I just realized i could post this here and maybe get a response which could really help. Thanks for anyone reading this.

[b3n]

Talk to her about it so there is no more confusion.

[Superfoot]

Yes, talk to her first. In some instances, your friends may misinterpret what you have said (it can happen) and tell her the wrong thing. Then you might wind up asking her to do something with you she's not aware of. Talking's always best. It goes down much better than unexpected encounters. Then she will know where YOU stand with her exactly. Good luck with the endeavour.

[Why_Worry]

Hey, thanks for the replies. But i think i've decided to just ask her to dance at the next dance because her really relaly relaly good few friends who she is always hanging out wiht keep on telling me that i should ask her to dance next time and stuff like that and she usualyl asks me ot dance at the school dances but we usually wind up not for a bunch of reasons but mostly just cause we are too shy so her friends always come up with something like it was just a dare or something but then later they tell me it wasnt and it was just cause of shyness. But i figure if i ask her to dance for a change then it will be better. Its confusing, but thanks for all the advice, just i cant write everythign down and from what i have experience it seems like the best choice to me. Also everything is going alot better now than when i wrote this post. But thanks everyone again.

[b3n]

Glad to hear it. Be confident!

[Menjo]

Yea, remember though. She knows what you want and what you are going to do, dont do what she expects. She also knows that you still like her, becareful with that also. Watch her body language to guage your situation, and most importantly atually get yourself confident in everything move you do.

[Why_Worry]

Oh, i never though of it that way, good points. Thanks.

[Menjo]

no prob, i can help with some other stuff on the same situation so just ask anytime.