marriage counseling

[Manabimasho1]

Be wary of intervening in domestic affairs.quote]

I agree 150% on that quote! I also had two Best friends in High School who got married the Girl I actualy knew her better and the guy I took Martial Arts with for 1 year. They also seemed fine in public but at home they fought hardcore, There are boundries you don't cross in an arguement and both crossed them alot.

I once butted in and asked the Girl to calm down when I witnessed her toss a boot at the Guy and it nearly hit me, I took the Guys side unintenionaly and later they divorced. I learned that both sides at multiply cheated and the Girl slept around with the Guys worst enemy on purpose.

The thing is that both sides in a domestic arguement beleive thierself to be right or else noone would be arguing and if you jump in with your two cents you may find out later you were wrong, lied to, or feel ashamed later.

Also I found out the Girl became so enraged at her Husband that she was literaly sleeping with anyone who would give her attention, I personal felt ashamed and upset over it what I didn't know is that the Husband made moves on her sister and cousin and admited to sleeping with someone she knew but wouldn't ever tell her.......When both sides perform an act of hate and dishonour both sides are wrong.

Never take sides sometimes it's best for couples to divorce then live out thier life with a unloyal unloving spouse.

[Goju_boi]

Yeah I'm not going to take sides anymore even if I see that person is correct or not,because then you just get into a big ol' mess of uglyness