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Sounds like the same comment i hear of children not wanting their parents to seperate.

Determine what is your will, and thier will. It may be that you are projecting 'hope.'

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Sounds like the same comment i hear of children not wanting their parents to seperate.

Determine what is your will, and thier will. It may be that you are projecting 'hope.'

I'm not quite sure of what you are saying in the second sentence?
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ill take a guess maybe it means what he seees as a possiblity of the couple not getting seperated is only hope and in reality some things you just cant fix....sorry if thats completly incorrect...

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Pretty close there Menjo. :)

Essentially what i'm saying is that you may be wishing something, and they may not be. In this you may be perceiving something as salvageable, when it is not. If both parties truly do not want the relationship to continue, then their suffering (truly, that's what it would be) should end.

Some people get together out of convenience, others out of lust, or love, or simple infatuation. Few consider whether there is any friendship, and thus attempt to continue on with their 'relationship' completely ignoring, or failing to develop, a friendship. Because, when all other interests subside, a great friendship will hold two people together.

It may be wise for you to step back and 'look.' Actually 'look' at their relationship. Is there one, or are they merely two people who happen to share the same roof, and the same kids?

A real question to ask yourself (not them) is, what are you trying to save? What part of their relationship are you trying to salvage? Is there truly anything 'left' to salvage, or worth salvaging?

I mean, we've already talked about how you should simply get them referrals, and step away... but i'm thinking about you spending a little time to learn from all this and examine what truly matters in a relationship, by taking this situation as an opportunity for inner growth.

You may learn and grow from all things. The catch... is to recognize such... and then to accept the growth.

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"It may be wise for you to step back and 'look.' Actually 'look' at their relationship. Is there one, or are they merely two people who happen to share the same roof, and the same kids?,"I think their lives are looking like this quite frequently ,but sometimes it's not. And I really don't know how this could help me grow beacuse I've never been in a serious relationship,so I don't know if this could help me improve.

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"You may learn and grow from all things. The catch... is to recognize such... and then to accept the growth." :wink:

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so I guess this helps me out whenever I'm in a serious relationship and see what I need to look for and how I need conserve it.Also just accept the fact that the couple I want to help isn't going to be salvageable.

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If it is a fact, yes.
well thanks for your help and everybody elses help, I think this kind of helped me mature a little bit about the situation
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If it is a fact, yes.
well thanks for your help and everybody elses help, I think this kind of helped me mature a little bit about the situation

Ahh, there you are... growth. ;)

And np, glad i and others could help.

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