White Warlock Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 Sounds like the same comment i hear of children not wanting their parents to seperate.Determine what is your will, and thier will. It may be that you are projecting 'hope.' "When you are able to take the keys from my hand, you will be ready to drive." - Shaolin DMV TestIntro
Goju_boi Posted July 26, 2005 Author Posted July 26, 2005 Sounds like the same comment i hear of children not wanting their parents to seperate.Determine what is your will, and thier will. It may be that you are projecting 'hope.'I'm not quite sure of what you are saying in the second sentence? https://www.samuraimartialsports.com for your source of Karate,Kobudo,Aikido,And Kung-Fu
Menjo Posted July 27, 2005 Posted July 27, 2005 ill take a guess maybe it means what he seees as a possiblity of the couple not getting seperated is only hope and in reality some things you just cant fix....sorry if thats completly incorrect... "Time is what we want most, but what we use worst"William Penn
White Warlock Posted July 27, 2005 Posted July 27, 2005 Pretty close there Menjo. Essentially what i'm saying is that you may be wishing something, and they may not be. In this you may be perceiving something as salvageable, when it is not. If both parties truly do not want the relationship to continue, then their suffering (truly, that's what it would be) should end. Some people get together out of convenience, others out of lust, or love, or simple infatuation. Few consider whether there is any friendship, and thus attempt to continue on with their 'relationship' completely ignoring, or failing to develop, a friendship. Because, when all other interests subside, a great friendship will hold two people together.It may be wise for you to step back and 'look.' Actually 'look' at their relationship. Is there one, or are they merely two people who happen to share the same roof, and the same kids?A real question to ask yourself (not them) is, what are you trying to save? What part of their relationship are you trying to salvage? Is there truly anything 'left' to salvage, or worth salvaging?I mean, we've already talked about how you should simply get them referrals, and step away... but i'm thinking about you spending a little time to learn from all this and examine what truly matters in a relationship, by taking this situation as an opportunity for inner growth.You may learn and grow from all things. The catch... is to recognize such... and then to accept the growth. "When you are able to take the keys from my hand, you will be ready to drive." - Shaolin DMV TestIntro
Goju_boi Posted July 29, 2005 Author Posted July 29, 2005 "It may be wise for you to step back and 'look.' Actually 'look' at their relationship. Is there one, or are they merely two people who happen to share the same roof, and the same kids?,"I think their lives are looking like this quite frequently ,but sometimes it's not. And I really don't know how this could help me grow beacuse I've never been in a serious relationship,so I don't know if this could help me improve. https://www.samuraimartialsports.com for your source of Karate,Kobudo,Aikido,And Kung-Fu
White Warlock Posted July 29, 2005 Posted July 29, 2005 "You may learn and grow from all things. The catch... is to recognize such... and then to accept the growth." "When you are able to take the keys from my hand, you will be ready to drive." - Shaolin DMV TestIntro
Goju_boi Posted July 29, 2005 Author Posted July 29, 2005 so I guess this helps me out whenever I'm in a serious relationship and see what I need to look for and how I need conserve it.Also just accept the fact that the couple I want to help isn't going to be salvageable. https://www.samuraimartialsports.com for your source of Karate,Kobudo,Aikido,And Kung-Fu
White Warlock Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 If it is a fact, yes. "When you are able to take the keys from my hand, you will be ready to drive." - Shaolin DMV TestIntro
Goju_boi Posted July 30, 2005 Author Posted July 30, 2005 If it is a fact, yes.well thanks for your help and everybody elses help, I think this kind of helped me mature a little bit about the situation https://www.samuraimartialsports.com for your source of Karate,Kobudo,Aikido,And Kung-Fu
White Warlock Posted July 30, 2005 Posted July 30, 2005 If it is a fact, yes.well thanks for your help and everybody elses help, I think this kind of helped me mature a little bit about the situationAhh, there you are... growth. And np, glad i and others could help. "When you are able to take the keys from my hand, you will be ready to drive." - Shaolin DMV TestIntro
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