Jiffy Posted August 16, 2006 Share Posted August 16, 2006 I think you need to be able to seperate Karate and the outside. There's no reason you can't date someone that happens to go to the school, just when you are in the dojo, that all need to be forgotten. The mind is like a parachute, it only works when it's open. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkerlineage Posted August 16, 2006 Share Posted August 16, 2006 When two people flirt while in a group, it can make everybody else in the group feel very uncomfortable, and even angry - sometimes angry enough to project their negative other people flirting experiences on some other poor girl on a karate forum...*inhale*Don't ask.I think it would do you and everybody else in your class good if you could restrain yourselves. That doesn't mean ignore him in class, or don't talk to him, but...just keep it like you were friends. As a teenager, I know that may be hard, but a dojo is not a place that you go on a date, or to force your personal life on the other karateka.In my humble opinion. American Kenpo Karate- First Degree Black Belt"He who hesitates, meditates in a horizontal position."Ed Parker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
parkerlineage Posted August 16, 2006 Share Posted August 16, 2006 Oh, and I agree with Jaymac...THREE TIMES! American Kenpo Karate- First Degree Black Belt"He who hesitates, meditates in a horizontal position."Ed Parker Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaymac Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 Three times..... do I hear 4? A great martial artist is one who is humble and respectful of others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shui Tora Posted August 19, 2006 Share Posted August 19, 2006 I think it would be wise to keep your relationship on a "work cologue" status... Yes, go out with him (as you met him outside of MA school) but when it comes to paried work, try and partner with someone else. Why? For one, you'll get used to trying out techniques on different people other than working on just one person, but also you'll keep the relationship professional and you'll stop losing your concentration and hell stop being "frisky"... To know the road ahead; ask those coming back... ~ Chinese Proverb" The ultimate aim of Karate lies not in victory or defeat, but in the perfection of the character of its participants. " ~ Master Funakoshi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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