This scared me into knowing how lethal my practice is...

[ladyj]

Mr. Mike,

Be proactive not reactive. Get him away from your children. You have experienced just a taste of what reactive with him would be, now imagine what would happen if he laid a hand on your children. Your children need a father there to protect them and you can't do that if you are in jail. Yes it would be an awesome defense that your child was in danger but the argument would be that you allowed him to live there knowing who and what he is. do you really want to leave your fate in the hands of a mixed jury where it could go either way. As for your sister you can't make her change. Be supportive, but she will only change when the pain she feels now is greater than the fear of the unknown that change represents. She is comfortable in her situation and the thought of change scares her to much. My prayers are with you and your children.