Being a verbal victim, what would u do?

[GhostFighter]

What to do when a couple of people make fun of you and making your day completly miserable?

 

I just get this feeling i want to chrush them at that point, but i still manage to keep myself calm most of the time.

 

What would you do?

[Straight Blast]

go home,get a gun,visit every house of the punks that bagged on me.

 

Im joking,its good you stayed calm,most people arent able to do that.I know I would just flip out to a certain point if they just kept on babbling nonsense.

 

You learn MA for self defense,attacking a person who uses their mouths to fight because they cant with their body isnt self-defense,it just drops you lower than their level.

[Son Goku the monkeyking]

I am at the same point alot of the times. with this kid in my class, What my instructor said to do is that when he or anyone else gets me really angry I just go somewhere that I can be alone and practice my bofo-sow ( deap brething exercise that also is the best way to practice for brick breaking exercise)

 

And belive me chances are the stuff he says aboutr me is worse than what anyone else says about you, I meen he constintly is making racial coments about me Like about the fact that I am a mixed kid and he always is saying something about my skin color, Even though I am not the only mixed kid in my class. Just don't let it get to you.

 

PEACE

[Ted T.]

Hey Ghostfighter,

 

we've all been there. Everyone has enemies. That's life.

 

I wanted to destroy people too but alwasy resisted the temptation. But I then hated myself for being a wuss.

 

So I trained. And yo know it all changed.

 

Would you right now want to destroy a five yr old that came up to you and said he hated you and you were a creep and he was goingto kill you? Of course not.

 

After training for a good long time, (everyone's different) anyone who has not trained starts to look like a petulant 5 yr old and so it's easy to smile and walk away.

 

Stay true...

[1kickKO]

I agree with everybody else. The oldest but best advice...ignore them. Just don't let them get to you..if they ever get physical with ya though, knock their living daylights out...but if it's just words, don't say anything back..just look at them, smile, and say thank you...Ya think they'll think you're one confused kid? You betcha. If they see it doesn't bother you, they might stop. If not, just don't let it get to you.

[senna_trem]

They're always such morons that are saying these things. They're such dead end people that aren't going to do much with their lives. For me, it's never the kids who do well in school and come from good backgrounds and families, it's the people who fail half the classes they take and don't plan for the future. I know that in ten years I'll be doing so many more interesting things then they are, so it rolls off of me.

[Rank7]

Look, if its a peer (meaning same as you in age height blh blah blah) then let him first off know how you feel!!!!!!!!

 

Be like yo seriously shut the * up youve been annoying for some time now get off my dick or whatever you wanna say . if they dont stop then maybe a lil confrontation might solve this. just be confident when you confront. The bible says Fear no man.

[vertigo]

The oldest but best advice...ignore them. Just don't let them get to you..if they ever get physical with ya though, knock their living daylights out...but if it's just words, don't say anything back..just look at them, smile, and say thank you...Ya think they'll think you're one confused kid? You betcha.

 

Agreed. In my experience, trying something like this actually works... seems it is much less fun for others to make fun of someone they think is nuts, who says thank you when annoyed

 

also agreed though if they start throwing punches, take em down. never provoke though! don't antagonize them into throwing the first punch just because you want to fight them. "There is no first attack in Karate" (regardless of what art you practice, I generally assume most follow this general idea [if i am wrong, someone PLEASE inform me.. i hate giving bad info ])

[1kickKO]

You're right on the dot ...don't drag it on, but if they punch you, punch back and punch hard, don't overdue it, see this is generally where my jujitsu takes place...if they punched me, I would punch them back and probably attempt to take them to the ground and get them into some joint lock until they cried like my little b-word...unless of course they had friends. That's when ya just get the Russian mob involved.

[The Phenom]

There are losers in a lot of places who make fun of people, probably because they don't know how annoying they're being. Of course, even if you are popular there will be those who wish you harm - and I'd recommend you ignore them, at least never to give them a reaction, which is what they want.

 

I think I know how you feel GhostFighter as I once felt like that. If you stay calm you'll be glad when you calm down later.