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Man, I've been there, I understand how hard it is at your age to try to understand women. A couple of things to try are, 1) talk to them...yes like you talk here.... sure we all make arses of ourselves at one time but don't take it personally at your age. 2) Don't be desparate, I had a buddy in College that couldn't get a girlfriend because he was desprate. He just needed to relax and just talk to women and not try to go down south right away. 3) RESPECT, everyone has personal space so back off when told so. Do on to others as they would do on to you.

 

I am 26 and am Married...I have yet to figure women out. (That may take several life times) lol

 

just relax and be yourself

"Pain is the best instructor, but no one wants to go to his class." Choi, Hong Hi ITF Founder

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LOL

 

dont feel bad you shouldnt have game at 13

 

dont be worried about getting a girlfriend. be worried about having fun, learning, expanding your horizons, meeting new people in general, being social, and learning a good moral value system that will serve you into your adult years.

 

Women or in your case, girls, will come and go.

 

the last thing you want to do is make yourself miserable trying to find and keep a girlfriend.

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13 is wayyyyyyyyy too hormonal of an age to have a healthy romantic relationship. Then again, I don't know many people of any age who have a "healthy" romantic relationship.

 

Anyway, I'm a senior in high school and I've never had a boyfriend or anything I could call a "real" date. Group dates, going to a movie with a guy but not calling it a date, supposed-to-be-first-dates that both of our parents crash... yeah. I remember at your age I wanted a date soooo bad. Now, I have too many other things to worry about and I could kinda care less. I mean, if somebody asked me out I would think about it, but I'm frankly tired of crushing on guys when nothing ever happens...ever. What's more, I look at the "couples" in my school, and they're ridiculous! Most of them are just dating each other because of physical attraction and nothing more, so they get bored of each other after a week. After a few tries, none of the girls want to date a certain guy, because he's built a terrible reputation of going through girls like toilet paper. The "gorgeousest" senior guy has been through dates with about 6 different girls so far this year, all of them boring and terrible from what I understand.

 

I guess my point is this...

 

1. Don't push yourself to have a girlfriend just for the sake of having one.

 

2. Think with your BRAIN. Ask yourself what you like about her. If it doesn't include her personality, chances are you two will have a miserable time together.

 

3. If you do find a special girl you care about, then talk to her. She won't always be the prettiest or the most popular, but she will be the one that makes you the happiest.

 

Anyway, that's what I would personally appreciate from a guy.

1st dan & Asst. Instructor TKD 2000-2003


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And like the Yoko Ono song says:

 

"Every man has a woman who loves him"

 

Statistically there are 2,5 women for every man so´s theoretically we should all have more than one girlfriend!!!!

 

:lol:

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Paz = felicidad = iluminación =meditación

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LOL

 

dont feel bad you shouldnt have game at 13

 

dont be worried about getting a girlfriend. be worried about having fun, learning, expanding your horizons, meeting new people in general, being social, and learning a good moral value system that will serve you into your adult years.

 

Women or in your case, girls, will come and go.

 

the last thing you want to do is make yourself miserable trying to find and keep a girlfriend.

 

Don't see females as objects or trophies. A proper union is based on two people coming together as equals. There should be mutual respect.

 

Ditto, ditto. :)

DORKS HAVE MORE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Don't try to find a girl friend. Learn first to gain self confidence and carry yourself well. With that comes eloquence of speech and manners.

 

Gain a bit of wisdom along the way and you will be fighting the girls off. :lol:

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