Noob Posted November 4, 2004 Posted November 4, 2004 Her side of the story: My husband was in an odd mood Saturday night. We planned to meet at a cafe for a drink. I spent the afternoon shopping with the girls and I thought it might have been my fault because I was a bit later than I promised, but he didn't say anything much about it. I don't remember doing anything to make him upset, but could tell there was something wrong. The conversation was quite slow going so I thought we should go off to some place intimate so we could talk more privately. We went to this restaurant and he was still acting a bit funny. I was getting really worried, what did I do? What was bothering him? Was he mad at me? I tried to cheer him up, but started to wonder what was bothering him. Was it me or something else? I asked him if he was upset with me, he said no. But I wasn't really sure. So anyway, in the car on the way back home, I said that I loved him deeply and he just put his arm around me. I didn't know what the heck that meant because, you know, he didn't say it back or anything. We finally got back home and I was wondering if he was going to leave me! So, I tried to get him to talk but he just switched on the TV. Reluctantly, I said I was going to go to bed. Then after about 10 minutes, he joined me and to my surprise, we made love. But, he still seemed really distracted, so afterwards I wanted to confront him but didn't, so I just cried myself to sleep. I just don't know what do anymore. I mean, I really think he's seeing someone else. His side of the story: Played badly today - shot 93 - can't putt for shiat! Felt kinda tired. Got laid though. Close Quarters Combat Tactics - Hope to see you there!
Hudson Posted November 10, 2004 Posted November 10, 2004 The game of chess is much like a swordfight; you must think before you move.
Ironberg Posted November 16, 2004 Posted November 16, 2004 No Comment... Then why am I posting, sheesh! Well... I think your husband has the IQ of a house-plant (he made some of the biggest "first step" mistakes there could be in a relationship). Then again, I ain't married am I [shudders in loneliness]... "An enlightened man would offer a weary traveler a bed for the night, and invite him to share a civilized conversation over a bowl of... Cocoa Puffs."
Noob Posted November 19, 2004 Author Posted November 19, 2004 No Comment... Then why am I posting, sheesh! Well... I think your husband has the IQ of a house-plant (he made some of the biggest "first step" mistakes there could be in a relationship). Then again, I ain't married am I [shudders in loneliness]... lol. Close Quarters Combat Tactics - Hope to see you there!
gojuchad Posted November 20, 2004 Posted November 20, 2004 typical male vs female emotions. I can relate. Draw close to god, and god will draw close to you. James 4:8
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