Hey I need a little advice

[Beiner]

Well its all so frigging confusing, I truly hate it. Im gonna just talk to her about it and be blunt. Saying something like are you stringing me along; as everytime I see us getting back together and we don't it breaks my heart over again. If she dosn't I have no interest in keeping her around, but from what she's said (both the jist and in actuality) she still loves me.

 

Truly I dont know if this is true or not, but she meant everything to me. I loved her and I would have given her the world. Since we broke up, even though its been short term she's been sick a lot more, and even if she dosnt see it I do.

 

I know just from the way she's stringing me along here that I am being ignorant to an extent, but unconditional love is just that. If this is a mistake, or something she needs to better herself and help better our relationship then Im willing to support her, because if I didn't it would not be unconditional love.

[DLopez]

Well its all so frigging confusing, I truly hate it. Im gonna just talk to her about it and be blunt. Saying something like are you stringing me along; as everytime I see us getting back together and we don't it breaks my heart over again. If she dosn't I have no interest in keeping her around, but from what she's said (both the jist and in actuality) she still loves me.

 

Well, it sounds like she feels guilty about wanting out of the relationship because of how wonderful you've been to her, and she doesn't want to hurt you, but she still wants to be free.

 

The point I hope you get out of all this, is don't get angry about this change. Getting angry doesn't help anything, and you might say or do something you will regret later.

 

Life is full of changes, and some will be very disappointing, but you have to face them and turn them into a positive.

 

Like many of the others have said already, get back into some of the things you sacrificed for her, and start looking forward.

 

Who knows, you may find after a while that you don't want her back even if she does want to get back together again, and you might even wonder why you ever felt that way to begin with.

 

You gotta be strong.