girls? how to act

[pentaxphoto]

i now some things about how to get a girl. but i think that people should

 

share there ideas so we all have a larger chance of getting one.

 

1.by them nice things.

 

2.say nice things.

 

3.make sure you ahve fun with them.

 

now share your ideas plz

[pentaxphoto]

someone reply

[angelica d]

Be yourself! Most, if not all girls, can spot guys who are putting on an act a mile off. Honesty and a sense of humour are high on my list!

 

By the way: Its not very respectful, IMHO, to talk about 'getting' girls. It sounds as if you're collecting things! (which I hope is not your intention!). Most of the ladies I know (myself included) prefer the phrase 'attracting girls'.

[pentaxphoto]

getting is a frase. ow ya i have something to add.

 

dont care if you get em or not.

 

dont get all mad or try forever

[TheDevilAside]

By the way: Its not very respectful, IMHO, to talk about 'getting' girls. It sounds as if you're collecting things! (which I hope is not your intention!). Most of the ladies I know (myself included) prefer the phrase 'attracting girls'.

....as you can see..... choose your words carefully around a girl. Don't say she's hot, say she's beautiful, or gorgeous, or anything other than hot. Call her hot when you're around your buddies. Even though "hot babe" and "beautiful lady" means the same thing to us, girls have a tendency to prefer the latter. Women....

[Beiner]

Girls are easy enough to get, on an aside im not a player or anything close.

 

Simply treat girls like people, because girls are people. Keep your self hygenic. Bad smelling people are turnoffs to those around em.

 

Don't be fake, if you don't respect yourself enough to be yourself, how can you expect a girl to want anything to do with you, for if she does want to date or whatever with you its not with you, and if she dosn't then you always have an out.

 

Be true to you.

 

and if you truly feel something for someone, let them know. Make them feel the way you see them. If you think said girl is above all the others, treat her as such.

 

Anyway thats my 2 pennys

[Drunken Monkey]

one word.

 

honesty.

[White Warlock]

Well, first off... take it off of pluralities. You don't aim to 'get' girls, you aim to 'attract' one particular girl. Or, at the very least, one particular girl at a time.

 

Here are some recommendations:

• Treat every woman you meet, in fact... every person you meet, with respect,
• Be sincerely interested in them as a person, and not merely their body,
  
• Decide on 'one' woman you want to know, and then get to know her,
  
• Be assertive, but not aggressive,
  
• Respect the woman's choice to be assertive,
  
• Spontaneity actually works wonders. Giving a gift to a total stranger can open up their eyes to you,
  
• Take a hint. If she gives you a second glance, she's 'likely' interested,
  
• Don't be cocky. Nothing is more unattractive than a cocky guy,
  
• Introduce yourself, but end your self-focus at that point. After your introductions, focus on her, and... without being intrusive, get to know her,
  
• If you find you're really not interested, be courteous and depart. Don't change your focus and go after her friend, you'll only look like a total jerk to 'both of them,' as well as to any other women that witnesses this,
  
• Brush your teeth, maintain proper hygiene, dress well, and groom. Only a pathetic handful of women are interested in going out with transients.
  
• If you wish to impress them, impress upon them your interest in them... not how valuable, or worthy, you may be to them. Generally speaking, women prefer being valued over having a man of wealth.
  
• Listen, Listen, Listen... Don't just hear... actually listen. There WILL be a test.
  
• And last, if you have to fake any of the above... you're going to live to be a lonely old man.

And to continue to keep her attracted to you:

• Understand and fully respect the word, "NO,"
• Sex is nice, but it can quickly destroy a great friendship. Always measure your options and determine whether you want to have a lasting friendship, or a one-night fling with the potential for bitter residual feelings,
  
• When in doubt about an argument, don't continue arguing, just apologize,
  
• If you love a woman, then show it. Only one thing makes love grow, and that's more love,
  
• If you don't, then end it,
  
• If you have doubts about whether you love her, then figure it out quick... or end it,
  
• Always maintain proper perspective. Don't sacrifice all your dreams, but at the same time, don't expect to sacrifice their dreams. If your goals are not compatible, and you two are not able to find a compromise, then accept this and move on. Destroying one or the other will leave a lasting resentment that will 'eventually' cause the relationship to collapse,
  
• And last, money is important and it pays the bills, but love brings you happiness. Keep that in mind when you find yourself complaining about her credit card expenses.

As to honesty, i would disagree, especially if combined with openness. It's not a good idea to be honest about whether your GF's sister is hitting on you. It's not a good idea to be honest about all the women you've slept with in the past. It's not a good idea to be honest about how you were dating other women during the first six months of their relationship, because you were feeling insecure. And it's definitely not a good idea to be honest when they ask if the jeans they are wearing makes them look fat, or whether they need a boob job.

 

I recommend sincerity instead. Sincerity, by definition, holds with it a degree of common sense and constraint. It also leaves you with the ability to 'weasel' out of those Catch22 questions.

[White Warlock]

Ahh, i'll add another one.

 

It's okay to be shy... but at least get up enough guts to approach them and show you are interested. From there, being shy may actually help you to pique their curiousity. Again, don't fake it.

[Drunken Monkey]

hehe....

 

all i said was honesty.

 

how you choose to use it is up to you.