Ironberg Posted May 28, 2004 Posted May 28, 2004 I got a question for the ladies (sorry to interject in Mart's post)... Do girls really like a tall, shadowy, solid type who has a reputation for being a loner, or having a close friend, or few friends (that they seldom hang around). As far as my experience goes in this area, this is the way I'm beginning to percieve myself, and have either been hurt trying to get acquianted with the opposite sex, or abandoned. Perhaps my problem is that I'm too quiet, serious, locked-up, sometimes ackward, maybe even bitter or cynical. Is there any attraction to strong, silent types who have good listening skills? "An enlightened man would offer a weary traveler a bed for the night, and invite him to share a civilized conversation over a bowl of... Cocoa Puffs."
Beka Posted May 28, 2004 Posted May 28, 2004 Strong silent types with good listening skills, sure. But guys who haven't gotten over being hurt or abandoned? No thanks. If your problem is that you haven't gotten over the past, well, get over it. If your problem is that you're over it, you've just re-learned how to live and that resulted in being more cautious and therefore seemingly aloof or quiet or serious or whatever, then you should be fine. Just be nice, smile, say "hello" and we're good to go.
krunchyfrogg Posted May 29, 2004 Posted May 29, 2004 Every girl is different, just like every guy is different. Everyone looks for different things. "A life is not important, except in the impact it has on other lives."-- Jackie Robinson"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing."-- Edmund Burke
Red Triangle student Posted June 25, 2004 Posted June 25, 2004 So...do Girls who do MA like Boys who do MA? "To be elated at success, and dissappointed at defeat, is to be the child of Circumstances." I wish I followed that rule! ^^ I hate Losing!
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