Rich_2k3 Posted April 16, 2004 Posted April 16, 2004 kle1n, seriously have a surf on that website, there are some very good articles on exactly what ur going through, here have a look, these might help: http://www.topdatingtips.com/flirting.htm http://www.topdatingtips.com/getting-dumped.htm http://www.topdatingtips.com/relationships.htm http://www.topdatingtips.com/bare-essentials.htm http://www.topdatingtips.com/confidence-tips.htm "When my enemy contracts I expand and when he expands I contract" - Bruce Lee
blitzcraig Posted April 16, 2004 Posted April 16, 2004 Man, take it SLOW seriously. I've been through a lot of crap that I would rather not deal with again but probably will. Just think about it this way...relationships are great, but also lead to problems, loss of money, loss of family and friend times and the list goes on. If you can find a girl that is like you and likes and respects you then i say go for it. Dont just fall for a girl cuz shes hot. The bad thing about being in a lot of relationships is all the time and effort you put into them doesnt even seem to matter in the end. Im not saying dont get in relationships because im looking for one myself, im saying take it slow, rejection will happen, heartache will happen. Dont get in over your head. I'd say if you lived here we could hit the town together and find some but you dont. Good luck to you and keep us informed on your situation. We're all here to help you out. #1"The road to tae kwan leep is an endless road leading into the herizon, you must fully understand its ways". #2"but i wanna wax the walls with people now" #1"come ed gruberman, your first lesson is here.....boot to the head" #2"ouch, you kicked me in the head", #1"you learn quickly ed gruberman"
Ironberg Posted April 17, 2004 Posted April 17, 2004 I'd like to shadow Blitzcraig's arguments with this: I recently picked up a book called: "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" out of healthy curiosity. After reading the first two chapters I'm convinced that dating is a game that you can only win as an adult. The problem with today's word is that becomming an adult has become so slow and progressive, that you are genuinely trapped in teenager-hood until your mid to late twenties. I'd say more, but I ramble too much... being single till that ripenning isn't for everyone, but casually entering the arena of relationships isn't healthy IMHO. Your life is very important, BUT so is the life of that person who is starting to mean so much to you. "An enlightened man would offer a weary traveler a bed for the night, and invite him to share a civilized conversation over a bowl of... Cocoa Puffs."
blitzcraig Posted April 19, 2004 Posted April 19, 2004 Ironberg has a point too. I guess i did make relationships out to be something kinda bad, which they are not at all. Its good to have someone feel the way about you that you feel towards them. But only if your ready. It doesnt have to be super serious. #1"The road to tae kwan leep is an endless road leading into the herizon, you must fully understand its ways". #2"but i wanna wax the walls with people now" #1"come ed gruberman, your first lesson is here.....boot to the head" #2"ouch, you kicked me in the head", #1"you learn quickly ed gruberman"
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