delta1 Posted March 28, 2004 Posted March 28, 2004 ...What? An opinionated, smart, dark haired, tattooed vixen who practices karate every day?... I think I'm in love! Too bad I'm over 50 and married. Oh well, probably for the best. I'm also only 5'9", and can be arrogant at times. Gotta go, I'm late again... Freedom isn't free!
Ironberg Posted March 29, 2004 Posted March 29, 2004 I think I'm in love! Too bad I'm over 50 and married. No comment! "An enlightened man would offer a weary traveler a bed for the night, and invite him to share a civilized conversation over a bowl of... Cocoa Puffs."
blitzcraig Posted March 29, 2004 Posted March 29, 2004 hahaha #1"The road to tae kwan leep is an endless road leading into the herizon, you must fully understand its ways". #2"but i wanna wax the walls with people now" #1"come ed gruberman, your first lesson is here.....boot to the head" #2"ouch, you kicked me in the head", #1"you learn quickly ed gruberman"
delta1 Posted March 30, 2004 Posted March 30, 2004 I think I'm in love! Too bad I'm over 50 and married. No comment! Aahhh... shaddup! Freedom isn't free!
Dijita Posted March 30, 2004 Posted March 30, 2004 Yeah confidence is good. My problem is though that i dont see why i should be running after women. I mean women want men too, i think they should show it a little more. dont u guys think so? I'm a girl... and if I'm interested in a guy, I'm preety good at making it clear. Confidence is important, but cockiness sucks. Some examples, is the guy who puts himself down, thats a huge turn off for me. I dunno.. just be yourself, try new things, keep an open mind and good things will happen. Are you a really picky person with high expectations? This could be your problem too.
kle1n Posted March 31, 2004 Author Posted March 31, 2004 hmm i think i will just give up its kinda difficult and there are more important things than having a partner in life. Be everything. Be nothing.
monkeygirl Posted March 31, 2004 Posted March 31, 2004 Ack! Don't give up! It's only been 10 days since you started this thread...you have to at least give it a month or two. You're not going to see immediate results, especially since you're going to have to try a lot of different things. Finding a life partner isn't always the most important thing in life, but it ranks up there pretty high. You have your entire life ahead of you, don't quit now. 1st dan & Asst. Instructor TKD 2000-2003No matter the tune...if you can rock it, rock it hard.
blitzcraig Posted March 31, 2004 Posted March 31, 2004 Your young...dont worry about a life partner. When I thought I was about to get married by the end of the year it sounded good. But now that I realize im not....im glad. I wouldnt have the chance anymore to get out there and meet new people or do my own thing. I think the best thing for you(and me) right now would just meet people. If you find one to go on a date with great!!! Dont expect anything too serious. If that happens it happens. Just go with the flow. If you find a great girl and want something serious talk to her. I found out girls want you to voice your opinion and talk to them. Dont hold your feelings inside. I know confrentation sucks but its better than confusion for months. #1"The road to tae kwan leep is an endless road leading into the herizon, you must fully understand its ways". #2"but i wanna wax the walls with people now" #1"come ed gruberman, your first lesson is here.....boot to the head" #2"ouch, you kicked me in the head", #1"you learn quickly ed gruberman"
Ironberg Posted March 31, 2004 Posted March 31, 2004 Perhaps the problem with most males is that they want all the benifits of marriage without making the commitment. The selfishness could lead to a counterproductive society. I'm not just speaking as a Christian, but as a believer in the tenents of my art, and the ethics that it emplies. I'm not positive how much girls want a special person who also has a strong sense of loyalty and desire to commit - but it's just a hunch. Let's see... attempt numero 11,755 at pondering women. "An enlightened man would offer a weary traveler a bed for the night, and invite him to share a civilized conversation over a bowl of... Cocoa Puffs."
Beka Posted April 1, 2004 Posted April 1, 2004 Perhaps the problem with most males is that they want all the benifits of marriage without making the commitment. I agree with you there. No, I am not Christian, but I think men often want the *benefits* of marraige without the work. I'm not referring to premarital sex, but to the other aspects of a relationship that only occur when a couple has dedicated themselves to each other, and taken vows to stay with each other (whether that be through conventional traditinol marraige or otherwise). Anyone can get mindless one night stands when they want them (you just have to know where to look), it's the connection with another person that takes work to build. And not everyone is always wanting to work to keep and maintain that connection. I have all sorts of random talking that I do about relationships, so I'll leave this one short.
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