LeopardGold Posted November 26, 2003 Share Posted November 26, 2003 My best friend who trains at the same dojo is obsessive about an instructor. She first had a crush on this guy, then she was almost stalking him. It was obvious that he wasn't interested in her (one of the reasons among is he doesn't think its right to date students)...now she is bashing him whenever she gets the chance. At first I just ignored her comments, but now she is talking about him all the time and its all negative...not only to me but to everyone at the dojo she is bashing him. She got in trouble a few times with the head instructor for making comments about the other instructor. I have already told her just to shut up about it and quit before she is kicked out. Now I think it makes me look bad to even hang out with her there. What should I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
battousai16 Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 personally, if she was a good friend, i would stay loyal and stick by her. there's got to be more to her than an obcession with the instructor, right? she'll settle down, i imagine. it's probably not healthy, and in the end she may end up even just leaving the school, but looking bad because you hang out with her is the last thing i'd worry about. "I hear you can kill 200 men and play a mean six string at the same time..."-Six String Samurai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeopardGold Posted November 28, 2003 Author Share Posted November 28, 2003 thanks for the advice! She is a good friend so I don't want to not hang out with her. I just hopes she gets over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
battousai16 Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 i'm sure she will, don't worry about it. if there's one thing i've learned about girls, it's that they fluctuate. one day they'll be in madly in love with some random guy, the next they'll hate him and everything he stands for. time heals all wounds "I hear you can kill 200 men and play a mean six string at the same time..."-Six String Samurai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
three60roundhouse Posted December 1, 2003 Share Posted December 1, 2003 Sounds like a crush that will be over fast - once she realizes that it's totally unrreasonable. How much would it take for her to be "kicked out" of the dojo? 1st dan Tae Kwon DoYellow Belt Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu16 Years OldGirls kick butt! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Practice is the key _ Posted January 19, 2004 Share Posted January 19, 2004 That is just some kids crushes in a month she'll get her head round and relize this is not really true love, I use to stalk a girl for fun with my friends i'd like her for about over 4 years but found out its only a crushes, what I dislike about girl is they flurt to much thats not way to show you interst in some one, even if i'd like a girl in my dojo i'll keep secrate and most of the time pretend not to be intrested, you should stick by her and be loyale afterall she is in LOVE with an Instructor, This instructor probabely figured out that shes doing that stuff but the instructor probabely very wise to ignore her, sonn she'll get over it trust me I had alot of experinced about this. Somone love oneSomone love twoI love one That one is myself just have been turn down.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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