At the risk of "preaching", if you don't want to fight, don't go where fights often occur. Once of my instructors, who frequented bars in his younger days, realized that whenever he wore a karate shirt or jacket, he ended up in a fight. He quit wearing karate apparrel in those places. Just like we avoid dark alleys late at night, etc., it would be wise to avoid places where bouncers are "overworked" and underpaid. Just a thought....