To be honest, my aggresiveness depends heavily on my mood, or rather my ability to control it depends on my mood. I find that if I nice and worked up, I'm quite aggressive, though I usually do a good job refraining from doing damage. This reminds me of a time a few years ago, actually, I have a couple of tales to tell Within my first couple weeks of starting Tang Soo Do, this guy that came from some other area dropped by the do-jang to try it out (in his gi). As it happens, we were sparring that evening, and I was matched with him. The first thing he did? Some massive jumping-kicking manuever that bruised my chest and winded me. After politely reminding him that sparring that day was to be fairly light, we resumed combat. What does he do? A solid right cross onto my cheek. No blood, but a definite head-snap back for me. Luckily, my instructor saw both and switched sparring partners around so that my instructor was fighting against the new guy. New guy was horribly out-finessed. hehehe. Other story: After some boxing and MUCH advancement at TSD, we had another sparring class, and I was matched up with my instructors younger brother (he was 25-ish). He demonstrated no control (he busted my nose pretty solidly--I had a constant flow of blood), and seeing that he was a first dan, there was no real excuse for that (esp. since I was a lowly orange belt). So I resorted to boxing more and kicking less (my personal weakspot) and ended up besting him, in my humble opinion. He left with a blackened eye, darkened cheek, and swollen lip. But as my four-year-old sibling stated, he started it. Thankyou for listening to my 2:00 am ramblings