Empress Atagi

Lets just say a certain fellow will think twice before he grabs another woman's *.

I get this problem with adolescent boys who think they can beat everyone in the dojo and have no respect for female martial artists.

There is not such thing as "the best style". There are only great martial artists. What they all have in common is passion for what they do, no matter what the style. I would stick to one style, make it your passion and master it. Dedication and passion in one part of your life will flow into other parts. Be confident of your abilities but never satisfied with what you have yet accomplished.

I think a lot of repetition is very important at the beginning in order to create a "memory" in your body. Sparring is most practical after you have learned several types of techniques because it teaches you what works and what doesn't. You also learn your own weaknesses. I would not worry about the lack of sparring until you are a mid-ranked belt. As for learn-on-your-own, books and videos are helpful in the introduction of technique but they cannot teach you the subtlties you will need to perfect them. This is where your Sensei comes it. He will show you what the video can't.

I train through my local community center and pay about $36 for 8 weeks. I also take an advanced class out of my Sensei's garage every Saturday for $10 for 3 hours. Even though its not a formal dojo I would match my skills against anyone my rank. Its all about dedication.

I got one when I finished my Masters degree. It is a symbol of a landmark time in my life. You will know what to get when you see it because you will not be able to stop thinking about it. Mine is a Japanese family crest of the Atagi clan. It represents for me my love of plants (my biology specialty) and my love of martial arts.

I have had to use what I learned when a "friend" wouldn't take "no" for an answer. I am glad I had my training but I wish it had never happened.

I started with Bo but my favorite is the Tonfa. I find it very versitile. The techniques you learn with tonfa can be applied to short sticks which you can usually find laying around. I think it is the most practical in that manner.

I started when I was 30. I admit it is difficult picking myself off the floor when some 15 year old has thrown me but I do it anyway. My goal is to perfect the art. Where are my feet? Where are my hands? This is something that kids do not have the patience for. You can be an example despite age and flexibility if you have the right attitude.

I met my current BF in a MA class. We have lots of fun messing around but when it comes to training we do not get along. I think you have to be careful that it stays fun and in our case it means we do not work together in the dojo.

I think the "believing" part comes naturally at a later stage in your training. Experience has a lot to do with it.

I tend to carry weapons that are common items. I put my hair up in hairsticks and can use those just as well as anything else. I also carry a fan on warm days. Don't forget how handy keys can come in. I also have a pocket knife, but I really do use it for work. It is important to learn to look around you to see what everyday items you can use to defend yourself, just incase you are in a bind.