I got married to a great cook! Also, I can only train 3X per week as opposed to the "6" when I was teaching full-time, and spend much of that time helping teach. I do try to work out with a partner for awhile after each class if possible. My instructor used to weigh 300 lbs. (he is still about 260 @ 6'1") but he has incredible dexterity and hand speed. His kicks are also fast and "mule-like" so while he is a better martial artist now that he is thinner, he has always had devastating technique, speed and power. I am now 6'3" 250 lbs. so my goal is to get down to about 230 and replace some fat with some muscle. I think many martial artists train harder up to and right at Shodan (1st degree) and by that time other facets of life seem to surface. Many students are in their teens or early twenties, so work, marriage, kids, job changes all take a toll on our training thus what kind of shape were in- I decided that I want to be better than I ever was before (which probably was not that good anyway) so I stopped drinking soda, am slowly changing my diet and started doing Yoga and lifting weights also- Train for life!