i no there is no such thing as a best style, but i just want to now a style that would suit what i would like to do. if i joined i wouldnt say it was the best, i would say its the best FOR ME.... good advice thanks, when i can ill look around some of the schools/dojos to see the best one after i find a style i can look at different schools teaching that style and its just that i would like my style to have a balance of punches and kicks, not be too competition based and i dont care if it takes years to learn, i want it to be self deffence based and be effective in fights but look as good as it can lol but the latter isnt really that important lol