Thanks for the replies guys.. I didnt mean to show any disrespect by the way, my way with words can get a bit , well, I dont know the word, but I didnt intend disrespect I'll have to leave this thread for a little while, as important and delicate things have come up which require my attention, and Id rather leave the thread for a while then come back and reply in depth than just bang a quick reply up and forget about it... rest assured I shall return to it !